@themickey
Over most of my life, as far back as I can remember people well, I've been very involved with a total of 7 churches and one Christian organization. The combined number of leaders comes to around 40, give or take a few. Pastors, youth pastors, elders and some deacons are included in the count.
Of those leaders, I have only known of three people where an immoral issue surfaced. One was an elder and there was an issue with another woman and I do not know the extent since he left the church. One was the pastor who I mentioned in a few posts ago and there are other reasons to think he was going along with things for personal reasons but not a believer in his heart. In his situation there were no known instances of physical immorality but several claims of inappropriate emotional relationships and some lying and he did not stay at the church after the various situations came to light. The other was a pastor who gave a prolonged, inappropriate hug to a married woman he was counseling and had developed a closer-than-should-have-been friendship with. It came out because the woman reported it to the elders and he admitted it and they told it to the church and he also did not stay at the church any longer. Both pastors are still currently married to their same spouses, but the elder is not.
I have never been in a church or Christian organization where any claims have been made that leadership was involved in any child sexual abuse of any form.
I can tell you, off the top of my head, of many people I have known who are outside of Christian circles/churches who have done much, much worse.
I think most born again Christians who are trying to live according to the Bible are going to try to follow what the Bible says to avoid immorality.
Over most of my life, as far back as I can remember people well, I've been very involved with a total of 7 churches and one Christian organization. The combined number of leaders comes to around 40, give or take a few. Pastors, youth pastors, elders and some deacons are included in the count.
Of those leaders, I have only known of three people where an immoral issue surfaced. One was an elder and there was an issue with another woman and I do not know the extent since he left the church. One was the pastor who I mentioned in a few posts ago and there are other reasons to think he was going along with things for personal reasons but not a believer in his heart. In his situation there were no known instances of physical immorality but several claims of inappropriate emotional relationships and some lying and he did not stay at the church after the various situations came to light. The other was a pastor who gave a prolonged, inappropriate hug to a married woman he was counseling and had developed a closer-than-should-have-been friendship with. It came out because the woman reported it to the elders and he admitted it and they told it to the church and he also did not stay at the church any longer. Both pastors are still currently married to their same spouses, but the elder is not.
I have never been in a church or Christian organization where any claims have been made that leadership was involved in any child sexual abuse of any form.
I can tell you, off the top of my head, of many people I have known who are outside of Christian circles/churches who have done much, much worse.
I think most born again Christians who are trying to live according to the Bible are going to try to follow what the Bible says to avoid immorality.
Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach...
1 Timothy 3:2 NIV
1 Timothy 3:2 NIV
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