Good god, you're riddled with emotion .... this is your only problem.
I've got a trend indicator, a momentum indicator, and a price volume indicator which is my crown jewel.
All of these are custom coded...by me. They're not the typical crap....RSI, MACD....those are all bullshit....and don't work.
Well you've been disqualified from connecting with someone on an intellectual level since you've just admitted that you've got a trend indicator, a momentum indicator, and a price volume indicator ... all of which are essentially the same exact thing as an RSI and a MACD LOL, and these indicators surely do help a trend analyzer, if you know how to use them properly.
I have so many problems with your logic. It's 100% emotional, and non objective. You can see it in your initial post. But I digress, I've got some suggestions.
First things first: If you're trading plan was objective, why does your entry matter? Do you not know how to average your break even to mitigate huge amounts of risk? Especially if you are trading up to 3 contracts in the NQ contract (this is the only contract I trade, and its perfect for this).
You also said "I constantly get out too early...its killing me". This is proof that your trading plan has no objective profit target. If you are truly trading the trend, your first profit target should always be the previous swing high or swing low (depending on which direction you a trading in). Don't worry about staying in profitable trades longer or getting out of trades "too early" this is all emotion. You can kill it just by using an objective profit target/ stop loss. When you follow objective points for stops and targets, you don't have to "worry about getting out too early". It will remove the emotion man, I think it would help you.
Finally, you're flattening your trades when they don't go right. This is terrible because what happens with most traders (99.9% of them) will get in a trade FAR TOO EARLY, leaving risk potential high, and profit potential low, then when they get emotional about it and close the trade for a much higher loss than they would have made if they had just averaged their break even price closer to an objective stop loss (previous swing high or swing low - again depending on the direction you are trend is moving in).
Bottom line: Fully objective trend trading is like the absolute way. Drop your emotions or lose all of your money.