Syswizard,
You say 4 ES and 3 NQ...you talking about trades in both at the same time or that you're trade both in the same day while not simultaneously at the same time as in not two positions open at the same time ?
Also, in the beginning of trading the Emini futures (you mentioned you only have 3 months real money trading experience in the Eminis)...you should be concentrating only on one of them and not both unless your trade method is dependent upon some kind'uv correlation between the two.
Yet, if eventually you've gotten yourself into the position where you can only trade one of them...Emini NQ should have priority over Emini ES. The price action of Emini NQ is just better and a lot less games being played out with it than the Emini ES by the big boys.
I think when you drop your position size down to 1 contract, you'll be able to reset and then make the appropriate adjustments...test it and then try again but this time with only 1 contract. Later if things are going well after several months on the 1 contract...gradually move back up the position size.
wrbtrader