The system was designed so that states like ND have a way to check places like CA and try to avoid mob rule. If you don't understand this, I suggest taking a course on The Constitution and what makes us a republic. The system was beautifully engineered by our Founders. In your statement above, it's ironic that you state that you do not like "fly over" to tell you how to live. With this admission, you have unwittingly made the argument for ND having the same number of senators as CA since this helps ND avoid the CA mob telling them how to live. Your absolutely ridiculous answer indicates that you are un-American at best.
I totally understand the design. All I am saying is that it is not fair when minority tells majority how to live. In cases of ND vs CA 800K people should not have equal say to 40 mil people, but they do unfortunately.