Quote from illiquid:
On the topic of paranoia:
Anyone who has traded long enough will undoubtedly develop a nagging suspicion that the markets aren't exactly "friendly". Highs/lows tend to be bought/sold, protective stops serve as magnetic trampolines, the list goes on and on. For the more optimistic (typically greener) bunch, this feeling usually gets swept under the rug of unbridled anticipation for what opportunities a free market offers one and all; besides, at any given moment, one can go long or short as he pleases, it's 50/50 at worst, no? Even the less sanguine will nonetheless learn to dismiss such misgivings and instead focus on taking full responsibility for the results of their own actions â a sign of growth and maturity . . . isn't that what trading is all about?
Yet I would argue that it's a mistake to supress one's paranoia for the sake of some egalitarian ideal of the free market. On the contrary, I think to do so would be to deprive oneself of a powerful tool for learning how the market actually functions. Remind yourself constantly of the fact that "free" doesn't necessarily equate to "fair". I've learned not to shy away from my paranoia; in fact I really don't care if what I believe is necessarily true or not. But if I allow myself free rein in considering what is possible, I at least open myself to accepting all outcomes no matter how nonsensical or illogical, and work from there.
So what sorts of "truths" does a trader-paranoiac hold? Consider the following:
1. The market is always out to get you.
2. The market will go up because you sold it; the market will go down because you bought.
2. The tape can be liberally "painted" and cannot be trusted.
3. Stops are always visible and are magnets for price action.
4. If your risk manager can see your losing positions and where you need to be liquidated, why can't someone else?
5. Do you think fx brokers invented trading against their own customers? The spirit of the bucketshop never died.
6. Short locate requests go directly to the enemy; traders are offered free locates the same way brokers once offered "free" trading.
And so on and so forth. Does some or all of this sound crazy? Can one really even attempt to make money from such a hostile environment? Doesn't a belief in all the conspiracies paralyze one from placing a trade at all?
Well . . . that's the whole point. Trade paranoid people. Trade more selectively. Much more selectively. Throw that 50/50 crap out the window, that's la-la-land bullshit. The market isn't gonna lie there and let you try out which hole feels best without making you pay up. Remember, whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Level the playing field a little and learn to be paranoid.
I will say that I have had the exact opposite experience. In my early years I thought just like what you posted. I made things much harder than I needed to. If your stop is "on the book" or not there is still going to be other stops around it to make a potential area worth gunning for.
Once I finally started to understand the tape tells the truth and didnt try to find the lies within it then I started to become more and more profitable. I anticipate that we started at opposite extremes and we both ended somewhere in the middle but I thought I could at least provide another perspective.