The 4 stages of single women in NYC

It is hard to believe the statements I see on this website.

I see more women working than even five years ago, and most women are far more intelligent with their money than men are. Unless you guys are all from some poor areas where women use their sexuality to escape starving, the women that I see are pretty well off and the only reason they may care about how much money you make is, imo, more to do with compatibility than it is about the actual money itself.

In addition, the intense hatred of women comes through in most of these posts. In my experience, it is really simple. A woman within two minutes, has already decided if she wants to bang you or not. Don't take it personally if the answer is no for you, it doesn't mean you are good or bad, ugly or sad. So sex for sex sake is not that complicated and most young women today are quick on the holster, and money is rarely on their mind at this stage.

As far as finding someone you are not just attracted to physically, but also respect and actually like hanging out and doing things with, well, that is the prize, isn't it? Otherwise, why not just order one online?

http://www.mailorderbrides.com/


"Staahn, you will find that wanting is often a greater thing than having. It is not logical, but it is often true" - Spock
 
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It is hard to believe the statements I see on this website.

I see more women working than even five years ago, and most women are far more intelligent with their money than men are. Unless you guys are all from some poor areas where women use their sexuality to escape starving, the women that I see are pretty well off and the only reason they may care about how much money you make is, imo, more to do with compatibility than it is about the actual money itself.

In addition, the intense hatred of women comes through in most of these posts. In my experience, it is really simple. A woman within two minutes, has already decided if she wants to bang you or not. Don't take it personally if the answer is no for you, it doesn't mean you are good or bad, ugly or sad. So sex for sex sake is not that complicated and most young women today are quick on the holster, and money is rarely on their mind at this stage.

As far as finding someone you are not just attracted to physically, but also respect and actually like hanging out and doing things with, well, that is the prize, isn't it? Otherwise, why not just order one online?

http://www.mailorderbrides.com/


"Staahn, you will find that wanting is often a greater thing than having. It is not logical, but it is often true" - Spock
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Nitro, you will have no problems getting the "prize" with your sensitivity and respect for women. You are a prize too. But if "wanting is often greater than having" then the chase is better. :)
 
My experience, often Western women are a ‘fail on my scale’ because they over indulge themselves.
If they always crave food or crave shopping or constantly crave sources of satisfaction from outside themselves, they have lost the ability to be attractive.

The perfect woman is one who has learnt to go without, is not frustrated when the tap is not always on and is happy in her own skin.
 
Quote from Cutten:

Ok, a lot of people are sounding off, giving their *opinions* here. Just like in the markets, opinions about love & romance are mostly BS. All that counts is experience of what works and what doesn't.

In my experience and observation, all the theories, lists, systems and opinions on dating/sex/love are totally worthless. In my experience, what works is this:

Approach every single woman you find extremely attractive (defined not by her looks, but by whether you get a boner within seconds of meeting her), until one of them gives typical female signals she is also attracted to you. Go on 3 dates, if you have not fucked by the end of the 3rd, then she is either sexually repressed, nor not that into you - forget it, dump her and move on. If you do get laid by the 3rd date, then fuck (protected) for 6 months and have fun. Do not get her pregnant, catch an STD, or (worst case) marry her in this time.

After 6 months into the relationship, take stock. If you are not arguing and eyeing up other women by this point, you are probably in love and should stick with her. If you are at each other's throats, or constantly jerking off to porn or fantasizing about your exes, then you are not in love and should dump her and move on. If you got lucky and things are going great, then consider moving in together. Then repeat this - if after 6 months you are arguing a lot, not getting enough sex, or thinking about fucking other women, then leave. If all you are doing is having a great time and lots of great sex, then ask if you want to have kids or not. If you don't, then just live together and never get married. If you do want kids, then get married and have them.

If at any point, you start regretting dumping one of the women, contact her and try to rekindle things. One good sign that someone is right for you is that you move on, then miss them. Whereas if you move on, and think "Thank fuck I'm single and rid of that bitch!" then she wasn't "the one" ;)

That's it. Guaranteed to work better than any dating course, self-help book, or psychology manual.
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I think that's a great post. That's pretty much what I do as far as the approach goes, but after that I never really dump a woman . I try to keep it going even if am not so much attracted to her and of course I look for another one. Eventually I am dumped and I am miserable everytime even if I wasn't into her. It's pathetic.

The thing is it's hard to find someone new if you don't like spending time going out and do not have a large circle of friends plus I hate the dating stage I want to fuck and get in some sort of relationship quickly so I don't have to take her out every time and so on and above all we can get comfortable with each other .

I just came back from town sarging the whole afternoon , nothing!
Maybe 8 chicks in a row said no ! I am 33 and all the under 23 systematically say no (in the street). One 40 + still smoking hot for her age would have said yes I think but she was with her teenage daughter (!) which I hadn't seen. So I bailed after a few minutes of conversation, I should have gone for the number anyway. Some days are like this.
I saw only 3 or 4 HB9-10 all looked like Eastern European and were accompanied (mostly by thug looking guys).
Even some fat girl said no on my way back home in the metro, she was very cute ,blonde with blue eyes , just a fat ass . But it's always horrible when a fat girl doesn't want to give her #. Makes me want to put a gun to my head .

Trading is not the best way of making a living as far as chciks are concerned, you never know if you are gonna have money when you are old to pay for these chicks and in my case I never go out of the house except for shopping/sarging and sometimes just for sarging . I don't even go out at night anymore as the ratio of women to men in bars here is a joke .


I think what Port1385 said is not very far from the truth, certainly exaggerated as far as the money goes even in NYC which I don't know but it must not be so much different than London.
I also believe that most of the best women are taken off the market quicckly , there are plenty of hot single women between 33 and 43 but they are often screwed up in some way.
It's very sad after 43, it starts going downhill pretty quickly for them .
 
If you want a short term affair, consider going to hotels where tour buses turn up.
Then go into the bar latish in the evening, but be sober and well dressed.
Consider the more upmarket hotels where tour buses shuttle in and out from.
Ratio of men to women should be to your advantage, usually the average joe blow doesn’t go to these venues, they’re too boring for them, but ideal for picking up a chick looking for a hot night.
 
1. don't give out your home phone!!!!! if you take a girl home and another girl calls your home phone (and your answering machine picks up) you are FUBAR. if you have to, get multiple cell phones. if she's so much into you that she texts you 40 times a day, you have a stalker on your hands and it's time to move on.

2. if you don't pay 100% of the first date, you have no chance for a second date if she's above average and under 30. hot women hate cheap guys, and if you make her go dutch on the first date you might as well wear a "I'M A CHEAP ASS" sign on your forehead. even if she's well off, she won't like cheap guys.
 
Quote from sammybea:

Thats strange. stage 1 seems to be the hardest. 2 is prob easier than 3.. but just takes some actual effort.. lol. And yes that effort does include dinner.

Why do the majority of Stage 4 seem to be from Queens??
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stage 1 is easy if you are at or about the same age and can role play like MTV crap and make drama and shit like that or if you are popular, stupid animals like stupid clowns

or maybe if you spend alot of money on them as to make their friends jealous, as long as you can make their friends suffer from jealousy they will do most anything for you, licking your balls is nothing compared to the pleasure they get from pissing their friends off by making them jealous
 
to attract stage 1 chicks, you must work out and stay fit and dress young. wear abercrombie, guess, hollister, dkny, etc. (but naturally there's a limit; if you're 45, don't wear a&f "destroyed" jeans and a hoodie because that'd be comical.)

your ideal fashion style depends on the age of the girl you're dating.
 
Quote from Epiphany:

Stage 1 girls are always the best

The reason is that unlike men, women do not grow 'mature', they just grow 'older.'

Take the 30 year old vs the 20 year old. Is the 30 year old that much more 'mature'? The only difference is that the 30 year old has baby rabies and her tastes have gotten more expensive: instead of shopping at Hollister, she shops at LV.
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fresh is always better, used stuff suck
 
Quote from blackjack007:

blackjack here to give his sage advice on women.

although very PI, port is correct. i've dated women from 20-34 and the ones over 30 have issues. they mistrust guys and have major emotional baggage from failed relationships. they are damaged goods. (plus, i don't find most of them attractive, although you may find a diamond in the rough occasionally.)

one other thing i noticed. women 20-25 always say "i'd rather be single forever than compromise on the perfect man". that changes as they get older and all their friends get married and loneliness sets in. by the time they're 32, they are singing to a different tune. if you want a fairly easy score, date the ones over 30 but be prepared to put up with their baggage.

women over 30 try very hard to stay fit. notice how 22 year olds just eat chips and pizza and never hit the gym, but when they're 30 they work out like fanatics and eat tofu and drink skim milk only. lol
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women play lottery with their lives, they give up on what they have in delusion to get to 'the one'

they are wired to search and strive for 'the one', but they need control, love can't control life, it's like your sexual desire guiding your life, unless you are lucky it will fuck up your life and put you on a path you most likely never wanted

it's all this sexual equality bullshit that is backfiring
 
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