You guys are exactly right, for Western women. Terrific insights you've posted about aging and values by decade... I agree.
But why limit yourself to Western women, born in the USA?
I found, after dating literally several hundred women in my 20s (I was a player, with a 300zx, all over the clubs in So. Cal back in the 80s), that what worked best for me was marrying a Japanese girl, from Japan (Kobe), that I met when I lived in Hawaii.
I've been with her for 11 years now, it's our 10th wedding anniversary this December. That's definitely a world record. Asian women from asia (I've dated girls from Singapore, Japan, Beijing, Korea, Thai, Hong Kong), are GREAT. You have to meet them before they've lived in the US too long, and 2nd generation ones that were born here don't count (and don't work as well, I've found from experience).
They age very well (my wife weighs less now than when I met her, and she like me is in her early 40s), no wrinkles. Also she's done 100% of the cooking and cleaning for me for the entire last 11 years, and likes it. No complaints. Gotta love it.
She rarely argues or raises her voice, and is very health-conscious and peaceful and pretty. Met her in Honolulu when I lived there for 10 years. Sometimes, just "changing channels" like that works wonders. Finding an asian woman from asia, where the cultural values are much different than here, was the solution for me. Phrases like "egalitarian relationships" and "sharing the power and decision making" are totally foreign to her, thankfully.
I'm very traditional and like that kind of relationship -- I make the $ and she keeps the house right and we have a terrific time, and she's a great friend too (and smart, she's degreed from Univ. of Hawaii etc).
To asian women,
Ken
p.s. and on the rare times (1x/month) when she does get pissed off at me and calls me names, I can't understand it 'cuz it's in japanese anyways lol.
Tired of women who yell at you or are nasty? Ditch the US-born women and marry one from an asian country. Chinese and Korean girls are a bit more aggressive, Japanese are much more demure. It's all good. I like QUIET women who don't argue and let the man be in charge. Asian women rock. (footnote, a blackjack dealer in Vegas I was talking with said Japanese and Indian women are the best, I haven't dated Indian women though, but many are beautiful, too). At first, many seem to 'run hot and cold', eg one minute you're the hero the next they don't want to talk to you, when first dating them; it's part of the routine as they're making up their minds about you. I could write a few books
But why limit yourself to Western women, born in the USA?
I found, after dating literally several hundred women in my 20s (I was a player, with a 300zx, all over the clubs in So. Cal back in the 80s), that what worked best for me was marrying a Japanese girl, from Japan (Kobe), that I met when I lived in Hawaii.
I've been with her for 11 years now, it's our 10th wedding anniversary this December. That's definitely a world record. Asian women from asia (I've dated girls from Singapore, Japan, Beijing, Korea, Thai, Hong Kong), are GREAT. You have to meet them before they've lived in the US too long, and 2nd generation ones that were born here don't count (and don't work as well, I've found from experience).
They age very well (my wife weighs less now than when I met her, and she like me is in her early 40s), no wrinkles. Also she's done 100% of the cooking and cleaning for me for the entire last 11 years, and likes it. No complaints. Gotta love it.
She rarely argues or raises her voice, and is very health-conscious and peaceful and pretty. Met her in Honolulu when I lived there for 10 years. Sometimes, just "changing channels" like that works wonders. Finding an asian woman from asia, where the cultural values are much different than here, was the solution for me. Phrases like "egalitarian relationships" and "sharing the power and decision making" are totally foreign to her, thankfully.
I'm very traditional and like that kind of relationship -- I make the $ and she keeps the house right and we have a terrific time, and she's a great friend too (and smart, she's degreed from Univ. of Hawaii etc).
To asian women,
Ken
p.s. and on the rare times (1x/month) when she does get pissed off at me and calls me names, I can't understand it 'cuz it's in japanese anyways lol.
Tired of women who yell at you or are nasty? Ditch the US-born women and marry one from an asian country. Chinese and Korean girls are a bit more aggressive, Japanese are much more demure. It's all good. I like QUIET women who don't argue and let the man be in charge. Asian women rock. (footnote, a blackjack dealer in Vegas I was talking with said Japanese and Indian women are the best, I haven't dated Indian women though, but many are beautiful, too). At first, many seem to 'run hot and cold', eg one minute you're the hero the next they don't want to talk to you, when first dating them; it's part of the routine as they're making up their minds about you. I could write a few books
