Yes. Lesson learned. I did call them while this was occuring. I was on hold waiting for them to answer for at least 25 min. While I was on hold I was still trying to close out. The order finally appeared 10-15 minutes later, while I was on hold, and I sold out.
Then about 25 min. into being on hold with them (now 10 min. after being able to sell out, but still upset about the loss), they looked it up, and said the market maker was slow in sending the confirmation back to them.
Correct. Technology is not perfect There are numerous places when orders are executed for something to go wrong, including the market maker not sending execution reports back immediately.The OP needs to address the issue of what type of order was entered and for what market. It's possible the same experience could have occurred elsewhere.
You have the wrong attitude. If you are stressed out over a situation which is done with you need to look at how to control your emotions. Look at your situation as an opportunity to find a better trading platform to make more profits in the future.Needless to say, I am stressed out over this. Now I am afraid to get in near the bell, where I make a majority of my money.
Where should I go?? IBKR? Lightspeed?? I hate the idea of moving and having to learn an entirely different program. But....but I can't trade with the fear hanging over me.
PLEASE HELP!
You have the wrong attitude. If you are stressed out over a situation which is done with you need to look at how to control your emotions. Look at your situation as an opportunity to find a better trading platform to make more profits in the future.
Always a good idea to use a bracketed order so that you have a stop loss from the instant the order is filled, you can always adjust it once you get filled.