Is it time to throw in the towel?

Idk where to even start. I'm looking for advice, motivation, or similar stories. For a little context, I'm 25 years old turning 26 in November, I still live at home and am being supported by my family to pursue my goals of becoming a successful trader.

I've been trading full-time since June 2018 and 2.5 years part-time before that. Last year I traded 33million dollars and ended up with $7000 in losses, $2,249 from trades and $4,213 in commissions. My average green and red days are $300-400 I managed to get up $2500 in the first two and a half weeks this year. The fourth week I took an $1800 loss one day and the week after I took another $1600 loss. Fast forward to today and I'm down -2302 for the year and only $174 away from my account being locked out due to the PDT rule. Total over the last 3.5 years I am down $17,000. Im not focused on making the money back, I know that if I just become consistent then the money will come. I'm mentally in a rut right now due to my performance over the last 3 weeks and slightly "Burnt out" from showing up every day for the last 3.5 years and making no progress monetarily.

I planned on trading till June and if I was still struggling then I would switch to part-time and start working on real estate or something. However, nothing is more attractive to me than being a trader, the money and the time freedom make this my favorite career option in life.

If you were in my shoes what would you do? Do I fund my account and switch to paper trading for a week or two to get back in the zone? Do I lower my size to 100 shares and start with my back against the wall? Do I fund my account and go on a "vacation" while the funds settle to clear my mind? Or my least favorite option do I throw in the towel early?

I've read through this thread and here's my 2c. I think your "mentor" is full of it and doesn't sound like a real mentor where you've mentioned you don't know his address so it sounds like an online type of communication only. Even a decent vendor course would have gone over with you far more than what you've mentioned over 3.5 years. If your account was close to the PDT threshold of 25k , then your 1800 & 1600 loss days are still over the recommended 2-5% daily loss limit. Btw, have you considered trading ES futures like your mentor does? As your style sounds like daytrading and trading ES futures with a discount futures broker may be easier to manage than worrying bout the PDT rules. You may also need to work on your trade management. Just because you're trading stocks, doesn't mean it should be ok to hold on to it past a reasonable stop point for a daytrading entry hoping for reversal from heat even past overnight. Anyway I suggest a partial break. Go back to part-time or at least stay in sim only for another six months and keeping a journal of how well you simmed the real trading. Can't think of anything else, so good luck.
 
And then what really pisses me off is I let fear control me from time to time. I was short NFLX @ 10:47 @346 and closed for .40 cents. Also, I was just in FB short at 167.5 and closed at 167.35 since it had that little pullback to 167.7 and I didn't want to take a loss of even a penny. I know what to look for and I pick good trades I just manage them poorly.
Ok, so you have an idea of where it's going wrong. Make a rule to never exit until it hits your stop, and work on keeping it.
 
I would agreed with @fan27. Get a JOB!!! I started trading in 2001. I was in prop trading full-time from 2001-2003. Then went back to Corporate America. After that, I didn't want to trade anymore. I just focused on my career. Then I traded off and on on the side with stretches of many years not trading at all. Then in 2015 I started trading seriously again. I was so happy that I had a decent positive year. But it was SIGNIFICANTLY BELOW my professional job salary. I realized I would need to continue to work at a nice paying Corporate job FULL-TIME while trading on the side.

Then 2016- to Sept 2018 I did pretty bad! I mean I had good days but then I would lose it all again. I had poor risk management. Then all of sudden everything just CLICKED! From Oct 2018 everything just shot up!

And I know this time it's NOT random. I have a few real edges. My risk management is great too. My winners are a few MULTIPLES of my losers. When I realize things are not right, I get OUT immediately. I take the loss right away! When things are good I ride my winners for HUGE profits. When I have a losing day I bounce back the next day or so. My equity is upward sloping and smooth. I trade in a way I only dreamt or heard what good traders should do.

Not sure why it took so long to put all of this together. But it now it's here. It feels great!!!

But the reason I'm able to get here is because I was realistic. I know this will be a long journey. I took my time. I develop other marketable skills that will be my backup in case trading doesn't work. So during the last 18 years, I've gotten a graduate degree from a respectable grad program, I have gained a bunch of technical skills, moved into management and developed great people skills, have good public speaking skils, and developed my leadership skills.

Even at this trading skill level I still go to work normally and trade on the side. Despite my monthly trading gains are more than most people's job monthly salary, I still focus on my job and continue working because I know my nice cushy Corporate job provides me the peace of mind to trade without worries. I'll continue to do this for a long time to come. That's the safest way to go.

But you will get there if you are patient and have a steady source of income.
And one day you will realize you no longer need your day job, quit, trade full time and never look back.

Eagerly wait for you on the other side. :cool::cool:

Best wishes.
 
I didn't bother to read the entire thread, but IMO, your problem - and you're in company with most others - is that you don't respect or understand how much effort is needed to make it in this game.

You mention taking a week or two off and papertrade to get back in the zone. Delusional, IMO. It's more likely that you should take a year or two off to build a system and a plan and then start to carefully trade it.

Trading isn't or shouldn't be about having three big losses in a row and hoping you'll making it up by a big winner on the fourth. That's just an attempt at controlled gambling. It's not about being in the zone either. You need to understand how the market moves in a wide variety of conditions and you need to be able to processs this information in real time with moving prices. If you're seeing something for the first time in your life and trying to process it intuitively or based on 'what you think' will happen - forget about it.
 
I'm not entirely sure as to what is causing the negative results. I trade breakouts mainly which does add a higher risk to my trades. Today I took TWTR short at 9:33 and closed 22 cents green. Then I took NFLX short at 9:38 and ended up in the money about 40 cents before it reversed on me. I took TSLA at 9:54 due to fomo and again got 40 cents in the money before it reversed. Then I took another trade in NFLX at 10:00 again 40 cents in the money than it reversed.
If you don't know what is causing your results you would better stop and take a step back, analyze why you are getting the results you are getting. That is better than continue to throw money at it.
 
I suggest you take a break from trading, get some sort of good paying job and revisit trading at a later date. I have traded off and on for 18 years and every time I have come back to the game it is with fresh ideas and renewed enthusiasm.

What he said...... maybe trade end of day with small size. Day trading is a nightmare and does not mean you will make more, usually quite the opposite I find. Deposit money in the account every week and make longer term trades with less commission and higher profit targets, f#ck the “zone’ there is no zone!
 
Day trading is a nightmare and does not mean you will make more, usually quite the opposite I find.
Yes it is. I suggest he get a trade analyzer to see where his problem lies. If he has low MFE, that means his entries suck. If he has high MAE, then his exits suck. These are very important metrics for the day trader....as well as percent profitability. If you are below 45% profitable, just hang up your existing breakout strategy and come up with a new one. Stop setting is also uber important....too tight and you'll be shaken out of trades. Too loose and your average loss per trade will zoom.
 
Here are my stats since June 11th, 2018 (My first-day full time) Most these stats are a 100-200 share size I switched to 300-500 December 21st. My reason for switching was that I would no longer have to make a dollar + per trade and could be satisfied with smaller wins like 30 cents per share.

Winning Days: 116 (73%)
Losing Days: 43 (27%)

Total Gained: 18,634.68
Total Loss: -18,104
Total commissions: -3215.77

Avg Daily Gain Green Days: $160.64
Avg Daily Loss Red Days: -$421.04

Total Trades: 844, wins 537 (63.6%) losses 303 (35.9%)

Total Number of Trades Green Days: 468, wins 347 (74.1%), losses 119 (25.4%) Scratch trades 2
Avg Volume: 1480
Avg Daily Gain: $160.64
AvgWin: $73.40
Avg loss: -$57.43
Avg MFE: $68.06
Avg MAE: -$47.66

Total Number of Trades Red Days: 367, wins 190 (50.5%), losses 184 (48.9%) Scratch trades 2
Avg Volume: 4496
Avg Daily loss: $421.04
Avg Win: $60.36
Avg Loss: -$160.72
Avg MFE: $57.59
Avg MAE: -$109.43

Max consecutive wins: 19 over 5 days
Max consecutive losses: 6 over in one day
Longest green streak: 20 days

It's clear that my issue is overtrading and letting losses go too far. My red days have such high volume because they generally start with a decent size loss of $600-1800 by 10:30 from some mistake or poor loss management. (i.e. Not closing a trade at my stop and closing 50cents to $1 above my planned exit, adding to a loser that spikes against me fast to get a "better" price believing its just a squeeze and refusing to close till in the money) Then I get nervous and start to scalp trades because I don't want to lose anymore but I also don't want to have a red day. Very rarely will I surpass my initial loss from the morning and I generally end up cutting my losses in half if not more. Sometimes I don't show up focused or in the zone and I've even considered taking some of my big losing days off but with this being my only source of income at the moment taking any day off feels like the wrong thing to do.
 
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These are my stats since December 21 since I increased my average volume
Winning Days: 21 (65.6%)
Losing Days: 11 (34.4%)

Total Gained: 6232.36
Total Loss: -6223.91
Total commissions: -861.61
Platform fees: -92

Avg Daily Gain Green Days: $296.78
Avg Daily Loss Red Days: -$565.81

Total Trades: 179, wins 124 (69.3%) losses 54 (30.2%)

Total Number of Trades Green Days: 75, wins 66 (88%), losses 8 (10.7%) Scratch trades 1
Avg Volume: 1464
Avg Daily Gain: $296.78
AvgWin: $102.91
Avg loss: -$69.98
Avg MFE: $112.83
Avg MAE: -$76.63

Total Number of Trades Red Days: 104, wins 58 (55.8%), losses 46 (44.2%) Scratch trades 0
Avg Volume: 5150
Avg Daily loss: $565.81
Avg Win: $76.98
Avg Loss: -$232.37
Avg MFE: $81.87
Avg MAE: -$152.91
 
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