Let me take you through my day. I'll be as honest as I can be as there are some outlier events though I'm sure this can't be the only reason I can't seem to drop the weight.
I start every day wiTh a big glass of water, as has been suggested above.
Breakfast consists of either:
3 eggs with a slice of cheese
Bowl of cereal (honey nut cheerios, raisin bran, or Organic Natures Best) with a half cup of 2%
Wheat toast with a TB of Peanut Butter
I always take with me on the road to work 2 cups of coffee with 4 TB of Light half and half with a teaspoon of natural honey
Mid morning snack is a fruit. Apple or 2 small oranges. Sometimes a handful of nuts.
Lunch is a wildcard.
If I work out I tend to make a protein shake (banana, PB, Protein powder, water).
If I don't...Pho, chicken shawarma, sushi. It's all on the table. 95% of the time it's relatively healthy and not greasy or too carby.
I usually grab a coffee at McDonald's after lunch (medium with 2 cream).
Afternoon snack is usually a handful of nuts.
I drink lots of water through the day.
Dinner at 7pm is whatever the wife makes. Half the week it's vegetarian. Quinoa, tofu, sweet potato skillet. 2 days of chicken and 1 day of red meat. One day is a wild card and can be usually take out or something not that healthy.
Nighttime snacking is an inconsistent problem. I try hard not to do dessert but I would say about 4 nights per week I'm having a handful of grapes or cheese and crackers after dinner. 2 nights a week I have a bow of ice cream or something sweet.
On average, I usually have about 2 bad dinners per week. 2 bad lunches. 1 bad breakfast (bacon and potatoes and buttery toast). It's not consistent. Sometimes more. Sometimes less.
Exercise is inconsistent.
Some weeks I hit the gym 2-3 times a week. Other times it's a total blank.
Oh, and I smoke about 10 cigarettes per day. And lately I've been smoking a bit of weed every day, too. But only a small amount. I generally only drink when I travel which is about 90 days per year. Not every night but sometimes it's to excess (tonight was 7 beers and 2 whisky).
I'm a creature of habit. But haven't been able to get into the habit of a rigid diet and exercise routine. Not making excuses but it seems obvious what I need to do.
I've been 280 lbs now for over 15 years.
Never more than 290 and never less than 270. I've reached this equilibrium and whenever I get to 270 I seem to blow it and don't keep pushing.
I have a lot of information. I know what I should and shouldn't do. I do a lot of both.
I'm just wondering if I just lack the motivation and personal responsibility to drop the weight and quit smoking etc.
Not much anyone can do to help me on this.
So there's Laces Routine.
Let me have it.