Quote from Xuanxue:
Princessa,
I think it's a mistake to allow your husband to dictate your trading and/or investment decisions; but more importantly It'll likely work in your best interest to fully confront why it is you sabotoged yourself asking a non-trader his opinion of whether you should or shouldn't take a trade. Certainly you knew that his opinion would reflect that of capital conservation and only agree if you can be certain you would make money on the trade. Non-traders don't understand that losing money and making it is what this business is all about.
Perhaps you're trading with money that can't be afforded to be lost (the only cardinal sin in this game). In which case, maybe a more conservative vehicle like a CD at a Federal Credit Union would be more to you and your husband's liking. The Pentagon Federal Credit Union is offering 4.60% fixed for 5 years. It's about the best around these days. There is some red tape involved in joining, but if you want to join you can.
Think about it. Your analysis is proving correct, but loss frightens you. Eventually, that fear even if you put your husband in his place, will interfere with your trading analysis.
Take a break, alone, and reflect. If you're not able to, or more apt, allowed to, and trading is something that you enjoy, love and live for like all other traders: a choice must be made.
You're not in an easy place. I wouldn't trade for awhile until you can get a handle on the situation.
My best to you regardless of your decision;