Things were not always peaches and cream so kindly hear me out. Many EONs ago I got invited to meet with the biggest traders at a killer brokerage in a all inclusive Resort. There was a guy swinging around $XX million when that was a lot of cash. He yelled and screamed at the reps online, guest service people and everyone around him that got in his way. Most of the people ignored him, a senior management broker told me “Pick his brain, try to make friends because it will be your gain! He’s the real deal!”
We went fishing and shooting and he was a different person! So enjoyable and someone you wanted to know. He shared his knowledge about two MM firms and fund he worked-was working at. Free ten years worth of training because I made friends with a dragon! If I had got offended and ignored him, my loss bigly!
Great that you made a friend with a "real deal" but not all "real deals" are rude and disrespectful albeit unknowingly and in fact many real "real deal"'s are actually very humble and polite. And just because somebody is rude doesn't mean that he is the "real deal". Majority of the time they put that on as an act to hide desperately the fact that they are actually nothing especially when they relentlessly stalk and attack people who actually try to "pick their brain" to challenge them and engage in conversation with them. "Real deals" are never afraid of people challenging them.
Either way don't really care, like I said, I am here to 1) socialize and 2) learn and help others when I can. I welcome debates but if you stalk me and attack me, I put you on Ignore and block you and that's that. I will suffer the consequences of "losing bigly" for missing out on being a friend with a "dragon" LOL But in life, I believe in touting your own horn instead of blindly following others especially when they have nothing to offer. But to each his own!
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