Oh yes didn't know that having sex with a woman nowadays would void the man any rights of "figuring out" whether the woman is all right or not and leave her if she really has ill intentions. LOL Sex is still an indication that the man has "bought the goods" still? LOL
And yes of course all men who got conned are all stupid and did not do their homework. No, "smart" men who did their homework never get conned? LOL Well then by the same token, if the man rapes the woman, then I guess it's the woman's fault to be too weak then because she never worked out? LOL It wouldn't be the man's fault right? All those women who joined the army and were trained in combat fighting never get raped? I mean if it's always the victim's fault according to you.
Are you telling me a woman who has a black belt in Judo and wins in numerous fight competitions but can't have the strength to fight off a man who's forcing himself on her? Then that woman deserves to be raped.
Word of advice: It's ALWAYS the perpetrator that's at fault, NEVER the victim. This is why we have criminal law system and it ALWAYS punishes whoever instigated the crime, not the victim of that crime. If it's the man's fault for raping the woman, then equally it's the woman's fault for conning the man. She might not be breaking the "law" for duping the man in marrying her but she is still in the wrong morally.