Quote from fairplay:
No, I am not a terrorist!
When I go abroad I do not go around with a signboard telling the world that I am Indonesian. Whatever for?
Unfortunately many Americans have this way of speaking loudly in public thus identifying themsleves. But that alone is not the point, why some of you are not welcome: those who are so obviously Americans also tend to lecture the world on how things should be done, ie the American way.
Imagine this: an Indonesian enters a "diner" somewhere in the states and proceeds to lecture the waitress on how to set the table and how to serve the food and drinks. Apart from being ridiculous, I do not think his comments would be welcome?
Although, from the little I know about American restaurants, I think you people could do with some grooming...