Quote from DayTrader10:
The funny thing is....they still cannot suggest a firm because they go off arguing about other shit.
I know a bunch of firms as well - and as I stated earlier, it's an insider's game so they don't want to be listed and I don't know the OP enough (or anyone else) to start listing names.
Have you tried Jane Street, First New York?
There are a LOT of them out there but the reality is you need to either meet them organically or you need to be an insider and get hooked up.
If you want to work at a prop firm (cushy salary) I'd suggest starting out working operations at a big bank (like JPM or BofA or State Street) as a Fund Accountant or Fund Administration (maybe Jr. Operations Analyst) working with groups that deal with funds that trade whatever type of securities you want. I'd recommend JPM - Fund Accounting at JPM was the worst job I've ever had in my entire life but it also opened up doors for me. It was miserable and my wife (girlfriend at the time had to encourage me to show up to work every day - both because we needed the money and because I needed something just to suffer through another day).
From there I'd work 1-2 years, get a promotion and see if you can get a job working back office at a fund or directly with an ETF issuer, etc. Perhaps it'll take 2-4 years at the big bank until you find the right connection.
Once you get to the Fund side of things you are still back-office - a bit like being a bus boy, you are customer facing, it's not quite as bad as washing dishes but your hands are still in the filth. Hang out there for 1-3 years and keep your nose clean. Don't get involved in politics and learn whatever you can - even the shitty things they dump on you will come back to help.
Look for a promotion to get up to Middle Office support (Mind you we are 4ish years into this gig) and keep your nose clean. Work HARD never say no to anything and always deliver 110% on whatever is asked whether it be Starbucks runs or working until 1am on a holiday weekend so your boss can enjoy time with his/her family. Remember your boss will be at home with his/her family monitoring you via blackberry and will also be afraid of his boss finding out that he wasn't at work that day and that you got two levels of shit dumped on you - so you need to be prepared to do your bosses job and his bosses job - with a smile, on a holiday weekend and love it. If your bosses boss never speaks to you then you are doing an excellent job. Keep in mind your boss looks like an idiot if he has to fire you (because he made a bad hiring choice) so that's really what your boss is worried about. Just do the work.
At this point you can start to meet people - counterparties, back office managers & VPs, a few traders, friends, etc. People will start to know that you know your stuff and that you don't let them down. Say nothing except for maybe once every 3-6 months let it slip at the bar or on the phone that if something ever came up you might be interested. Don't EVER put it in email. The E in Email stands for EVIDENCE.
Wait until they come to you.
6-10 years of that shit and I guarantee you'll have a different opinion of "being a trader".
If you are 30+ (or married) you should just ignore finance and make a living somewhere else.
If not have daddy talk to a friend at the country club and start work in a week.