Quote from daniel_m:
hey Optional, where can i get me one of those get-out-of-debate-free cards? 
so tell us, what are "the right things" that it is always 'valuable' (<- subjective term) to have faith in?
since it's pretty unlikely that you'll answer the above question, and even more unlikely that the answer you give, if you give one, will have a speck of objectivity to it, why not tell me this: are you absolutely certain of your faith, a la darkhorse? absolutely certain of God's existence? or do you acknowledge that perhaps you might be wrong? (as every good atheist does) do you acknowledge that there may be other explanations for your experiences (that maybe as good as or better than "god"?)
if so, great. if you had any desire for a better understanding you could really stand to gain from any discussion. if not, i fail to see any good reason for your continuing participation in discussing the matter.
What are the "right" things you refer to?
That is the subject of "morality" and "ethics" when applying standards to others and ourselves, concerning our actions.
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I believe you can never know the real motivation behind someone's action. Impossible, for unless you can read their minds, how can you know what they were thinking when they performed the action? So, all we have is judgement of outer behavior, and speculation on inner motivation.
Since we live in society, we have to have rules of conduct and make judgments in order to preserve the peace and tranquility of the society. Law and order.
Man made law and order.
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What is right, when it comes to faith?
That is between the individual and the God they worship.
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Am I absolutely certain? No. But by definition, can a being who is not absolute, be absolutely certain of anything?
Descartes "ah ha" experience did not prove his existence, only that his acceptance of the rules of logic, his faith in logic FIRST, made his "I think, therefore I am" a proof of his existence. However, he could never achieve an external confirmation of this thought, for he could never know with certainty that he wasn't delusional at any given moment. He could compare himself to all of his peers, but is that absolute proof? Have there been instances where everyone else was wrong, and only one man was right?
History shows us that this is possible. The very first man who suggested the world wasn't flat, was proven correct in time, but at the time was considered delusional by all others who held that belief.
Bottom line, I can only go by my own experience, the experiences of others, anecdotal information, and perception of those factors that are common to all human beings. I then apply whatever reasoning ability I have to seek a direction to move in. What more can anyone really do?
Do I practice faith? Yes.
Have I perfected my faith. No.
Do I believe practice leads to perfection? Yes.
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I have no need to convince anyone that my faith, or that faith in a power greater than themselves is the "right" path to take in life. I can share my direct experiences, point to the experiences of others, and apply common sense and reason to the situation.
I just find it funny that those who chose a "scientific" belief system, an atheistic position, or an agnostic belief system don't see that all are choosing a belief system to adopt.
Children are not born with a specific set of beliefs. They initially adopt what is given to them by their care givers without question, and upon maturation and individuation, upon becoming an adult they then have the power to choose what they want to believe and embrace, what they want to accept or reject, how to exercise their free will.
But a debate on the validity of religion from a scientific perspective makes no sense to me. To do so would be as silly as having a scientific debate on love, happiness, joy, and other emotive states for which there is no external proof as to the validity of them.
Only an absolute perspective could know the truth, a perspective that never changes, is eternal, and not subject to the flaws that are within all human beings.
Who among us can go an entire lifetime without sleep, food, protection from the environment?
We know of no one who has lived forever, do we?
So we exist in a fragile and dependent state, temporal, limited, subjective, and having a mind fraught with the constant changing nature of our emotional sides.
If someone came along and suggested that you could become eternal, never grow old, experience joy all the time, ever increasing pleasure each and every moment for eternity, honestly speaking, would you say no to such an offer?
It would be illogical to do so. If you boil down every motivation for each and every action, you will find at its core is the desire for happiness.
If someone chooses a path of science to reach that goal, and use the instruments available, to implement a path to reach that goal, to find the ultimate truth and reality, okay by me.
However, can that same person say that they have made the "right" choice, and I have made the "wrong" choice? How could they know, how could I know?
I try to bottom line it as much as possible. What is the essential nature of any and all human beings.
My goal is eternal peace, eternal satisfaction, eternal happiness, eternal health, eternal joy.
No scientist that I have read has ever offered a path to that. They might have concluded that to be impossible, but on what basis could they have concluded that? It is pure speculation in either case, but the desire remains. I could practice some form of denial of my own inner desire, or I can admit them and seek fulfillment of them.
So if those who perfected faith in the past, speak of the goal which I seek, and upon following that well worn path I move in the direction the have guided me, in the same way if I seek the ocean and following a map given to me by someone who claims to know the way----I begin to feel a cooling breeze moving in the direction the map leads me, and away from the arid nature of the desert, I continue to follow that path. Same with faith. If the faith brings the intended results, it is the right faith.
Wrong faith, wrong results.
One question for you:
What is the proof of your own death? If you say the proof is what the doctors say, how would you know that if you were dead?