I am getting scared of trading options, especially TSLA. I bought a debit spread OTM with 4 days left. I could not get a fill as a spread, so I did individual legs, the spread had a debit of $225 but somehow when I did the legs I had a debit of $575. I saw my long option making a lot of money while the shot option was losing even more. I was cursing the moment I decided to spread the blimey thing. (I should have gotten in with a call only) Eventually, I got out with a small loss($200). Already annoyed(but trying to mend the situation) I went long of one call, a few minutes later the market maker just killed the IV, to the tune of 40+%. Now I was holding an option with a $1000 loss. While TSLA moving my way! Both my optioned finished ITM. I lost $1200!
Question; how the hell can TSLA trade at $1600 but the options cost 13k?
Other question what the hell did I do wrong? I was right about the market, but it seems options have special ways of screwing me!