Thanks for all your suggestions! This is not a hypothetical question, I don't understand why anyone would ask fake questions.
My family is actually my wife, she doesn't trade but she earns very well. I earned well in my day jobs in my previous life, I treated her very well, now she takes care of me, well mostly. I burned her account once ($17K), she never got to see her account changes. With this new account she demanded to install the trading App on her phone, she checks the account on a daily basis.
She is upset with the 20K loss, but she understands that the market condition is extreme. When I recover my first 20K loss, I got cocky and sold options of individual stocks such as GS, MSFT, AMZN and MMM. I cut the losses of GS and AMZN, I have no confidence to hold them. Despite that the market has only rallied 50% of the 500 points decline, I'm almost break even. I wasn't doing too bad. If I only traded SPY options, I would be in green now. But I couldn't help asking myself: what if it dropped 500 points more? With the account fully loaded, it would be more than 40K loss. She will deposit 50K more and insisted it although I told her I can't handle big account.
BTW, MMM is really a disappointment, it performed much worse than all other stocks I traded. I plan to hold these 200 shares indefinitely.
I won't stop trading. My current plan is day trading a few MES contracts, very small P/L, which won't affect my account much. Sell spy options when good chances come, also trade small, don't use margin. I also like tesla options.
My secret trading goal was $1.5K weekly profit by selling SPY options.