Not where I have lived and I probably lived in many more and larger cities than you ever have. So, no, I can't agree with you, that's not what I experienced. Perhaps you expose yourself to too much social media that you hear of all those horrific young people who try to make your life miserable...
I said BIG-BOX, which is where most retail workers work. Maybe you live in some podunk town where there is no business, but in dense areas, nobody gives a shit about their jobs.