Quote from Cutten:
Ok, a lot of people are sounding off, giving their *opinions* here. Just like in the markets, opinions about love & romance are mostly BS. All that counts is experience of what works and what doesn't.
In my experience and observation, all the theories, lists, systems and opinions on dating/sex/love are totally worthless. In my experience, what works is this:
Approach every single woman you find extremely attractive (defined not by her looks, but by whether you get a boner within seconds of meeting her), until one of them gives typical female signals she is also attracted to you. Go on 3 dates, if you have not fucked by the end of the 3rd, then she is either sexually repressed, nor not that into you - forget it, dump her and move on. If you do get laid by the 3rd date, then fuck (protected) for 6 months and have fun. Do not get her pregnant, catch an STD, or (worst case) marry her in this time.
After 6 months into the relationship, take stock. If you are not arguing and eyeing up other women by this point, you are probably in love and should stick with her. If you are at each other's throats, or constantly jerking off to porn or fantasizing about your exes, then you are not in love and should dump her and move on. If you got lucky and things are going great, then consider moving in together. Then repeat this - if after 6 months you are arguing a lot, not getting enough sex, or thinking about fucking other women, then leave. If all you are doing is having a great time and lots of great sex, then ask if you want to have kids or not. If you don't, then just live together and never get married. If you do want kids, then get married and have them.
If at any point, you start regretting dumping one of the women, contact her and try to rekindle things. One good sign that someone is right for you is that you move on, then miss them. Whereas if you move on, and think "Thank fuck I'm single and rid of that bitch!" then she wasn't "the one"
That's it. Guaranteed to work better than any dating course, self-help book, or psychology manual.
lol i see where you are coming from. replace "woman" by "trading opportunity" and you go a long way.
my 2 cents: k.i.s.s., just stick to the women a few years younger than yourself (unless something special comes up of course).
