Originally posted by max401
"To be poor is to live in inadequate housing in overcrowded neighborhoods with bad schools and few or no recreational facilities; to be mired down in an atmosphere of hopelessness, of enduring agony over one's children, of poor health, rampant crime, price-gouging in local stores, job discrimination, political under-representation, police brutality, and constant insults-not least in the local welfare office. The emotional, psychological- and physical-impact of such conditions can only be imagined (or read about) by those who have not experienced them directly; but it takes little imagination to perceive that for those who are born poor the compounding difficulties of poverty are likely to keep them poor and to have children who will be poor-with here and there a rare and heroic exception."
(excerpted from the book
Against the Conventional Wisdom
by Douglas Dowd
WestviewPress, 1997)
The real needed piece that should be addressed in our community is "the ability to do something different than what we have so far." Rather than look at the factor that there needs to be a personal change of attitude, direction and effort, we'd rather find someone else to blame for the continuing problems. Instead of doing things like seeking and improving new skills, changing the surroundings, or associating with different peoples with different mind sets, there seems to be the need to go back to the excuse of slavery.
Yes it was a bad thing. Yes it provided stumbling blocks. And yes, many of them still remain today. But rather than go away from the sinkholes in the way of success, many folks sit down, take out the flag of protest and scream foul.
Even worse, there is a large segment who don't even show up to scream foul. They send surrogates who supposedly speak for ALL who are not in attendance. Fooled into believing this surrogate is the voice and the power, its call and grievances are heeded and addressed. And in many cases, this is the true minority view.
For many, very little effort is placed into making one's self more desirable and valuable in the workplace. I can't tell you how many African American males I know who don't take the time to stay into reading (anything other than the latest sports dribble) and expanding the mind with hard facts. Ironically, speaking of sports, Charles Barkley has just put out book that touches on some very delicate subjects in the minority community. It probably will not be received too well, and there is a reason.
Want to take a test? Today find one of your African American male associates (females are ok too, but progress won't happen without the males rising the standards) and ask him what were the last three books that he has read. And before you gasp and take this challenge, make sure that your last three titles weren't from three or more years ago also! If nothing else, you'll find that you may have started a legitimate and quality based conversation and that's where the total race acceptance really begins. With a conversation!
