What's your typical holding period, if you don't mind me asking? Are you price action trading?
IAS, I don't think you miss anything. I trade CME futures for a living, and I have been forced to set extreme stops to reflect the "tax" I pay whenever I put on a trade, up to 10 cents in Crude Oil to give you an idea. Basically, a Crude daytrade looks like +10c/-20c. Today, the instant a One Contract Brent trade was put on the market gapped 10 cents against, Buy or Sell. There was only one machine making the market.