I don't have any simplistic, guaranteed solutions to offer, so I don't make this kind of claims in public. Although I do throw on a few cheap/free long-term ratio spreads when vol is way down; this provides some degree of protection despite the fact that I can't predict what my port delta will be if and when there's a crash. In the future, I might sell some risk reversals at 1SD or so (haven't done that yet.) What I can do for now is point out that stops are worthless for the kind of protection the OP claims.
Again, for the Nth time: that's not me saying "stops are worthless, period" (which is what you seem to be arguing against.) If you still believe that's what I'm saying, then you're missing my point entirely.
Yes, we are. You're talking about using stops for some degree of protection in trades. We have no disagreement there; they do often provide that, especially in normal conditions. My point is that they are worse than useless - in fact, can be the worst approach possible - in times of extreme volatility. Getting out/staying in cash, using static or dynamic hedging to offset your delta, taking shorter-term/risk-defined trades, keeping your port delta neutral - these offer a reasonable degree of usefulness at those times. Stops don't.