But before I go... I also note that I have counselors on the radio explain women like to speak 30,000 words a day and men 10,000.
The actuals are higher, women are compelled to speak on average 75,000 words per day, men 25,000 but yeah roughly 3:1.
When my woman is hitting me with my daily 75,000 words I'm always trying to stop her and ask "what do you want me to do?" because men are looking for something actionable and her response is always "I just want you to listen" meaning you are somehow obligated to process those 75,000 words and not required to reach any conclusion or to take any action.