Psychopath "Tells"

Quote from maxpi:

I've been reading up on psychopaths. About 3% of men and 1% of women are psychopaths, also termed sociopath, same thing... All psychopaths are narcissistic but not all narcissistic people are psychopaths. I'm thinking that Psychopaths are essentially autistic people that have cobbled together enough of a personality to be charming.. They do not have a value system in place. That is the essence of Autism, inability to put together a value system and they have no empathy for man or beast. They "win" all the time because they always run their own agenda. They consider polite, cooperative people to be weaklings.... We've all encountered them but we didn't always know what we were dealing with...

I'm finding them here and there, I don't want to have to stop and deal with any of them so I wanted to have a list of clues that would raise flags so I could just sidestep that particular type of cowpatty in the great cow pasture of life... So far I have:


--Wide eyed stare, reptilian , a look like they are appraising you
--Play the Victim Card early
--don't respond to slaps until actually slapped
--adept at juggling lots of things
--Jargon Masters
--sudden or intimidating intrusion of space
--charm and charisma
--tantrums
--no affection for animals
--entangling stuff. They are hypnotists actually, shock, confusion, etc., are inductions for hypnosis
--natural Neuro Linguistic Programmers: they are about the mind manipulation

If anybody can add to this, please, feel free to do so..
They often look for validation from strangers
 
Quote from maxpi:

I have a problem with one currently, he's a violent guy but at his age it's not much of a problem but he's just ANNOYING me. We're pool shooters and he's worked on my mind to where I was afraid to touch the table almost.. that led to reading up to figure out how he could do that, then I noticed that I had a few more of them in my day to day environment.. they are all lying con artists and it really is a good idea to learn to spot them and avoid them, warn them off if necessary, they only go where the victim is a pushover... One out of fifty people overall and one out of thirty three men, that's enough to where a list of tells is a worthwhile project...

I'm going to add "rude behavior" to the list of tells, it's not exclusive to psychos, in fact I know one con artist type, she has all the tells pretty muchly but I've not seen rude behavior until I called her out and provoked her... maybe there is another area to work on, techniques for pushing their buttons and getting them to expose themselves...
ask em about their soul and god and honesty,you need to be up on it first,cuts thru the con,you are immediately attacked because you pushed the buttons,sometimes the soul and god are tipoffs for a great con,but if you are honest ,you can recognize honest,then hit em with if ya aint honest,ya aint ,that will send em packing for a new mark,but they will hate you,that's okay,price of telling the truth,might knock their game back a few pegs,works great on the real mafia folks,mostly taught honesty is for suckers and spent their life wondering why they can't find happy,be prepared to prove your not fake
 
Quote from ammo:

ask em about their soul and god and honesty,you need to be up on it first,cuts thru the con,you are immediately attacked because you pushed the buttons,sometimes the soul and god are tipoffs for a great con,but if you are honest ,you can recognize honest,then hit em with if ya aint honest,ya aint ,that will send em packing for a new mark,but they will hate you,that's okay,price of telling the truth,might knock their game back a few pegs,works great on the real mafia folks,mostly taught honesty is for suckers and spent their life wondering why they can't find happy,be prepared to prove your not fake

Great advise and if it pisses the nut off enough he gets his ass handed to him or worse. Of course maybe he'll just get his tires cut or house vandalized. It's stupid to fuck with someone who is mentally off, especially if they are violent like the OP said they were. Really it's stupid to fuck with people anyway. With that advise you're going to get maxpi's ass kicked.

Here is some good advise, walk away from trouble, especially since you have no skin in the game except pride.
 
Quote from ammo:

ask em about their soul and god and honesty,you need to be up on it first,cuts thru the con,you are immediately attacked because you pushed the buttons,sometimes the soul and god are tipoffs for a great con,but if you are honest ,you can recognize honest,then hit em with if ya aint honest,ya aint ,that will send em packing for a new mark,but they will hate you,that's okay,price of telling the truth,might knock their game back a few pegs,works great on the real mafia folks,mostly taught honesty is for suckers and spent their life wondering why they can't find happy,be prepared to prove your not fake

Correct!

I know this one woman, con artist, she always says "Happy day" with this really faked up smile and sincerity.. so she was saying that to me and I'd been practicing my "Predator Stare" just so I could experiment, now that I can pick the psychopaths out of a crowd.. I stepped a little closer and looked in her eyes like I was getting ready to short order cook her guts, not giving a dirty look, just a predatorial size-up... she recognized it!! She stepped back and was speechless.. I'm not sure more ordinary people would react so strongly to that look, they might note that it was odd, or animalistic but to be stunned? It takes one to know one.
 
Quote from maxpi:

Correct!

I know this one woman, con artist, she always says "Happy day" with this really faked up smile and sincerity.. so she was saying that to me and I'd been practicing my "Predator Stare" just so I could experiment, now that I can pick the psychopaths out of a crowd.. I stepped a little closer and looked in her eyes like I was getting ready to short order cook her guts, not giving a dirty look, just a predatorial size-up... she recognized it!! She stepped back and was speechless.. I'm not sure more ordinary people would react so strongly to that look, they might note that it was odd, or animalistic but to be stunned? It takes one to know one.
i might ask if you had a problem,we are all just people here to live one chance at life,everyone gets different degrees of pleasure out of it,for those worse off,conning is another form of displeasure,necessary in ones mind or not,it still leaves a hole,try to see the good in everyone,it's there,in different amounts,you can do that just by looking a person in the eye ,and they as you,can see inside...just treating everyone with respect goes a long way,imagine if...
 
Quote from ammo:

i might ask if you had a problem,we are all just people here to live one chance at life,everyone gets different degrees of pleasure out of it,for those worse off,conning is another form of displeasure,necessary in ones mind or not,it still leaves a hole,try to see the good in everyone,it's there,in different amounts,you can do that just by looking a person in the eye ,and they as you,can see inside...just treating everyone with respect goes a long way,imagine if...

I'm just learning some coping skills with regard to psychopaths... Life's a Montessori school, you pick your area of study, I'll pick my own, thank you very much.
 
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