Protecting Assets From a Divorce

[karol88]

Quote from mgookin:

I agree with you wholeheartedly Karol. I can tell from your postings that you are a very kind, considerate, educated and intelligent individual. You seem to have an incredible balance between emotion and logic, and those are qualities which just don�t exist in the average person; you are very special indeed.

So where is this yummy dinner you are cooking tomorrow night?

thank you, happy to hear it....made my day
oh, I better start cooking now!

 

[karol88]

Quote from domestic:

thanks karol88, i did want to add; posting about so called "good" marriages are actually on topic to the thread. if one was to conclude that a marriage can not end up in divorce by doing some of the points presented like above....you are protecting your assets from a divorce! similar to trading with good money management in addition to good entries.

also, i don't have carol brady at home; i just apply some behavior changes as part of my asset protection system. for instance, on a sunny summer day instead of fishing and drinking some great beer, i will relent and do what (ridiculously stupid ) she wants...like hang pictures. then after looking back at my choices, i conclude those choices did make me and my family happier than if i went fishing (i still end up fishing at another time.)

this is really great to hear...you know when I see couples that have been together for many years, I know that they can't be selfish (or at least one of them), or they wouldn't survive this long. I'm still fairly young, but looking back I realized that selfishness was the main cause of failure in any relationship that I was in....live and learn....

 

[karol88]

Quote from aeliodon:


Hugh really wanted a "soul mate" and guess what - after fucking hundreds of the hottest girls - he finds himself a very lonely, heart broken 82 year old man. Every girl he's been with has used him and ditched him.

If he wanted a soul mate he would have chosen someone more appropriate for him, an old pervert like him must know why she was with him in the first place...but then, there is also the 7 year itch.

there's only a limited number of women that settle for a relationship with guys that think only about themselves - the healthy ones break up the relationship very early....
I don't know how long you have been with your girlfriend, but chances are she knows all about you, but won't tell you.

you wrote about manipulation earlier: the best manipulator is the one that let's you think that you're the one in charge, so be careful....especially writing all that stuff on the msg board, and thinking your gf doesn't know it is a little foolish....she might be playing dumb, but 'enslaved' gfs/wifes like to play dumb while you there, and play detectives while you're gone...she probably already knows what you're up to and is one step ahead....
with your attitude, you'll get hurt sooner or later and become even more bitter in the future...it's a vicious cycle

 

[Cygnus Atratus]

Yes, exactly like trading, you either know how to use the material or you can't. Most can only say it does not work as they have failed or lack extra perception required to think beyond the box and situation....

Quote from aeliodon:

Those guys are losers that sell seminars - kinda like ex-traders that failed at trading and resort to seminar selling.

I watched a documentary about dating and there were some PUA guys there and out of 60 interactions with women - all failed.

The PUA game is like indicators - it works until it doesn't. Randomness and chance - play a big role. But if you don't bet you can't win. All PUA guys do is bet very often and pray for a score.

Besides any guy whose self-esteem depends on whether a girl sleeps with him or not is a loser.






Hugh Hefner is finished. So is playboy enterprises - that institution has lost its edge and so has Hugh.

Hugh really wanted a "soul mate" and guess what - after fucking hundreds of the hottest girls - he finds himself a very lonely, heart broken 82 year old man. Every girl he's been with has used him and ditched him.

Recently Hugh's girlfriend for 7 years (Holly Madison) left him for Criss Angel - a younger and richer guy. But Criss Angel is even a bigger piker than Hugh. If Holly is willing to cheat on Hugh and dump Hugh after 7 years - then Criss is a huge piker and is practically begging Holly for the same treatment.

Same thing with Hugh's other girlfriend that is now dating a football player. The football player is going to get WTF PWNED in a few years.

Hugh is now with two 19 year old twins that just got busted for assault. And playboy will likely declare bankruptcy soon. Hugh needs to be put on suicide watch.

Despite the obivous, broke ET traders think such a thing would never happen to them, after all - they are so special.

 

[stoshski]

Try getting a mood-ring. My wife bought me one and now she wants me to get rid of it. Seems that when I'm in a good mood it turns bright green and when I'm in a bad mood it leaves a black mark on her forehead.

 

[aeliodon]

Quote from antincedo:


it seems obvious that you are not marrying for love. which is evidence of a deeper rooted issue.

Hey - if you believe in love then I have a romance novel to sell to you .

Yes, I view a pre-nup as a stop loss.

And Karol - a guy can be a misogynist and still be 100% respectful towards his woman. Similarly, even a feminist can fall madly in love with a hot piece of cock.

 

[antincedo]

Quote from stoshski:

Try getting a mood-ring. My wife bought me one and now she wants me to get rid of it. Seems that when I'm in a good mood it turns bright green and when I'm in a bad mood it leaves a black mark on her forehead.

oh man another comedian lol

you guys are too freakin funny

 

[guy990opl]

Quote from aeliodon:





" Hugh Hefner is finished. So is playboy enterprises - that institution has lost its edge and so has Hugh. "

Says who ? They have a party every other night, besides Hugh Hefner is 82, and the fact is that at that age you, and 99% won't even have 1/4 of his edge, understand ?

By the way in case you wonder the guy is worth 400 millions and he made all that money by working wearing his silky robe. No one can do that, so do not talk about him as if you are talking about an average person.

"Hugh really wanted a "soul mate" and guess what - after fucking hundreds of the hottest girls - he finds himself a very lonely, heart broken 82 year old man. Every girl he's been with has used him and ditched him."

Did he tell you he wanted a " sould mate " ? Please Stop your BS. He is not lonely, he got many friends and there are 100 new, young and hotter girls who would like to be with him.

Heart Broken 82 y/o man ? When was last time you had 3 hot girlfriends? Heart broken my ass ! His reality is everyone else dream and you are full of shi*.

It is ok if you like the other guy germantrader think marriage is great, but do not try to convince the rest of us that marriage is good for everyone, or that is the " right thing to do" or that Hugh Hefner is a fool.

With marriage there is a high chance that you will lose 1/2 of what is yours. Obviously people like you want everyone to believe that it is not a big deal, and that people like me are all about money.

Another thing is that people like you love to proclaim is that money it is not important. It is so ironic that people who say money is not important are people who don't have any.

Is that part of the reason why getting married and or lose 1/2 it is not a big deal at all ?

"Despite the obivous, broke ET traders think such a thing would never happen to them, after all - they are so special."

Getting married does not make you special, nor makes you a better trader, or any better than the guy who is not interested in a long term relationship or the one who takes trips to Thailand to be the Thai Hugh Hefener or whatever messed up country in the world where one can legally buy sex. In the Usa of course one can not buy sex legally but modern sluts are everywhere. Most of them do marry only for the money.

http://www.nomarriage.com/nosense.html

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[hellothere]

Quote from aeliodon:

Those guys are losers that sell seminars - kinda like ex-traders that failed at trading and resort to seminar selling.

Big difference. Ex-traders failed to make money at trading, so therefore they have to resort to selling seminars to make money. But being a successful PUA won't get you any money, so that's why you see some of them selling seminars.

Quote from aeliodon:

The PUA game is like indicators - it works until it doesn't. Randomness and chance - play a big role.

Not as much, human beings are more predictable than financial markets.

Quote from aeliodon:

But if you don't bet you can't win. All PUA guys do is bet very often and pray for a score.

You obviously don't know much about the PUA game.

Quote from aeliodon:

Besides any guy whose self-esteem depends on whether a girl sleeps with him or not is a loser.

You must be thinking of AFCs. A good PUA wouldn't care about what any one girl thinks.

 

[fantastic_real]

What's your decision?

Are you going to marry in 2009?