Quote from Capablanca:
A question that should be asked is who started the polarization in the current politics? Who is continuing to perpetuate it? What acts and methods of discussion contribute to it? From what I see, there are some people who simply refuse to concede anything. Even when there are facts that are plain as day self-evident they will still try to make an argument over it. Such a mindset is irrational. One cannot conduct a constructive debate with people holding such an attitude. The current climate of political discussion in the U.S. is not good at all. If there is any clear sign the U.S. is currently headed for the gutter it's the complete collapse of intelligent political discussion. It's upon such discussion that a democracy derives strength. Currently it is poisoned. The independents have to step up and call those accountable to account for destroying the democratic debate. It is probably a bigger issue than many of the left-right issues that are used to litter the discussions.
Are you contributing to the current political malaise in the U.S.? Here's a test. Try praising the candidates in the party on the other side of your political affiliation. If you cannot do that, then you are part of the problem that is running the U.S. into the ground and the best thing you can do for your country is probably to pull yourself out of political discussions.
You make some interesting points. Personally, I think we can trace the destructive partisanship, at least in our era, to the orchestrated campaign that drove Richard Nixon from office. It showed the media, which was overwhelmingly liberal, that they had enormous power, the power to toss a president who had achieved an overwhelming electoral mandate out of office.
The next nail in the coffin was the nomination of Robert Bork to the Supreme Court. The Supreme Court had become highly politicized in the '60's under Chief Justice Earl Warren, ironically a republican pol. Reagan nominated Bork, a highly influential constitutional scholar but also a conservative and the fight was on. This was the final frontier of partisanship, because judicial appointments, particularly to the Supreme Court, had always been regarded as beyond politics. The campaign against Bork was highly personal and intellectually dishonest, but he was rejected.
Another unfortunate bridge was crossed in the contested 2000 election. Close presidential elections were not a new thing. Many thought Nixon had defeated JFK in 1960 and that the democrats had stolen the election through fraud. Nixon refused to contest the matter and graciously conceded. Al Gore was by no means so gracious. He tried to turn a few isolated voting malfunctions into a banana republic coup imposed by a partisan and corrupt florida Supreme Court. No doubt we can expect more of the same this time, no doubt accompanied by large scale street riots if you know who is not elected.
Frankly, I have no idea what the solution is. I thought the forum Rick Warrren hosted was a very positive exercise, but I fear it is the exception. I can;t agree the solution is to say nice things about your opponent. If anything, that is getting harder and harder to do as the parties become more ideological.
The beauty of our system for a long time was that, except to the pols, it was not terribly important who won. The parties shared broadly agreed upon visions for the country, and the differences were on the margins. Sadly, that no longer obtains. One party is pushing an aggressively socialist redistributionist agenda. The other seems to want to restart the Cold War. Compromise is difficult when there is so little in the way of shared goals.