Hello eleanorK80,
Well I learned by trading everyday and taking losses and taking wins.
And everything you are saying, is what us trader go through.
I like
@deaddog approach of having a plan in place on handle wins and losses and stay objective on track to trading. Because emotions, stupid trading, regret trading, fearful trading, I wanna give up trading WILL indeed come. You can not run from anything you are feeling.
All you can do is embrace it and plan for it and battle it, a plan helps reduce this things, so you remain in control.