They CHOOSE welfare because they can't get a job that pays enough for them to live on.
As for getting an education, hire better teachers. Reduce class sizes. Give teachers more autonomy in the classroom. Provide up-to-date curriculum materials. As for having kids, educate them about sex and provide contraception.
As for the "woe is me" BS, you may want to dial that back yourself.
And why can't they get a better job? Lack of education ... drop outs! I've forgotten more about this subject than you will ever know. 13 years working with kids who have loser parent(s), who are more than happy to 'use' the system. For many it is a way of life. Why work when you can sit on your ass and make more by taking advantage of every government program out there, whether qualified or not. Do you have any clue as to how much fraud is all the government run programs? And then on the side some of them deal drugs or engage in other illegal activities netting them $$$$. I've seen parents of kids ... who are known drug dealers .. pull up to school in their nice new Cadillac Escalade. And yet they get food stamps, Section 8 housing, utility bill assistance, welfare payments, etc. Some are truly working poor ... but many are in the above category and while they use the system they also at the same time bitch about lack of opportunities and being poor. But how many CHOOSE to be proactive and make things happen?
Hire better teachers? LOL If we started with abolishing the damn teachers unions that would be a great first step. The teachers I work with are mostly young, ambitious and 100% committed to teaching these kids. They are TEACHERS ... and not supposed to fill the role of parent and baby sitter.