Quote from tomdavis:
I used to be strongly pro-choice all through college, and even when I first got married. When my wife became pregnant with our first child there was a potential problem and we went in early for the first sonogram at seven weeks. What I saw changed my perspective entirely. There was a fully-shaped human being, moving around, reacting to my wife's movement, with a heartbeat of 100 beats per minute. When I asked the OB/GYN doc when she thinks life begins, she said there are many scientific theories, but nobody knows for certain. She said, all we can do is take measurements, study the physiology and try and reach a scientific conclusion. She also said that technology is going to make everyone rethink the definition over time.
I'm still pro-choice, simply because if abortion is made illegal, that won't stop it. Women will just have unsafe abortions rather than safe procedures. But the experience certainly changed my mind about unborn babies. It's no accident that the moment a woman finds out that she's pregnant she starts talking about "my baby," not "my fetus."
This is not a religious issue for me. I'm a devout agnostic. But when I hear a respected scientist/doctor say we don't know precisely when life begins, it raises a lot of questions.
Tom, it's a very complicated issue that could get far less complicated if we took the federal money out of the equation. That would probably be a good starting point. The moral issue will never be resolved.