There are two types of men - those who are suited to marriage and family life, and those who aren't. If you're the second type, never get married.
If you are the first type, only get married to someone who is so good that you can't live without them. That requires:
i) you get a viagra-strength boner within a few seconds of seeing her
ii) she is a filthy slut in bed, and willing to do any sexual fantasy you care to try
iii) she is of child-bearing age, no prior kids, and in good health
iv) she is not irresponsible - no drug habit, gambling habit, large debt etc
v) her mother looks pretty good for her age, and both parents like you and are good fun to talk to
vi) your core values are compatible: kids, religion, politics, meaning of life etc
vii) you both want to have kids
viii) your arguments are infrequent, mild, and you make up quickly
ix) she doesn't nag you except when you are a lazy idiot and deserve to be nagged at
x) you have been together at least 1 year, and the sex is still frequent and good
If all these boxes are ticked, then you may have met someone you can get married to. Otherwise, forget it.
If you are the first type, only get married to someone who is so good that you can't live without them. That requires:
i) you get a viagra-strength boner within a few seconds of seeing her
ii) she is a filthy slut in bed, and willing to do any sexual fantasy you care to try
iii) she is of child-bearing age, no prior kids, and in good health
iv) she is not irresponsible - no drug habit, gambling habit, large debt etc
v) her mother looks pretty good for her age, and both parents like you and are good fun to talk to
vi) your core values are compatible: kids, religion, politics, meaning of life etc
vii) you both want to have kids
viii) your arguments are infrequent, mild, and you make up quickly
ix) she doesn't nag you except when you are a lazy idiot and deserve to be nagged at
x) you have been together at least 1 year, and the sex is still frequent and good
If all these boxes are ticked, then you may have met someone you can get married to. Otherwise, forget it.