Marriage, just don't

[AKUMATOTENSHI]

I agree marriage in todays economy is nothing more than part of a sub-industry. My ex-almost killed me and did not even get charged for anything even though she was drunk as a skunk. The scars are still on my face. Her lawyer screwed me over big time and my attorney really did do much for me except fill paper work. Historically marriage was reserved for the wealthy as means to protect and grow wealth. It has turned into a sick chimera where as men get all the pain and blame.
The system especially in New York State is rigged so bad that if you are a man you are an automatic target. The woman take full advantage of the divorce process and rip every dollar out of the estate. A woman can move all joint funds into a maiden name account and the man can't do anything but watch it happen. I will never forget the story about how a woman self enseminated with product taken by oral methods and the man still had to pay for child support.
The appitomy of the modern woman is L. Lohan. Stay as far away from them as possible. If you need to get serviced goto the Mustang Ranch and be done with it.

Akuma

 

[olias]

Quote from Ghost of Cutten:


Suitable women prefer to be driven fast in an exotic sports car by a real man, they don't drive themselves or expect you to potter about in a beater.

I think you need to keep working on your theories

 

[ammo]

tigers wife cleaned up,tigers problem was probably/definetly there before he married her,that's a phsychological problem that didn't crop up over nite,marry him,have a few kids,cut him off, turn up the pressure,make his problem public,divorce and walk away, set for life...tiger 's still tiger,just scarred for life

 

[shortinterest]

Quote from dtan1e:

the thing about marriage is that the before and after person you get can turn out quite different

There is too much pressure based on my opinion... If you have dreams and aspirations you may have to be willing to give them up for that person to have a 9 to 5 and in most case you will resent them for curtailing your dreams even though love them. It is a really hard situation.

 

[Larson]

Quote from olias:

I think you need to keep working on your theories

I think he is dead serious. Women always have their eye out for "the cad" and secretly want to be dominated and treated like a piece of meat for their kicks. When you see how phony and shallow some are, then understanding will come and success!

 

[TGregg]

Quote from dc101:

According to the American research, there has been a 67 per cent increase in it over the past two decades, mainly among women.

They aren't the only ones. A recent survey of "single" (status being self reported) guys had 60% claiming to be a genius. Not just smarter than average, but one out of a thousand! No doubt most of them could whip Michael Jordan's @$$ in a little one on one as well.

A commonly done survey always reports that most people consider themselves the smartest person they know.

Most people are mind-blowingly egotistical and have huge gaps in their self awareness.

 

[fframe38]

Quote from Ghost of Cutten:

Ok I've solved the whole marriage issue. Get married if you meet someone who meets all these criteria:

i) between the age of consent and 29 years of age, and younger than yourself

ii) at least 9/10 in looks, and with the type of looks that will age fairly well

iii) good in bed and enjoys sex

iv) she's in love with you, more so than you are with her

v) bisexual and willing to have threesomes with other women

vi) has a track record and instincts favouring fidelity & loyalty

vii) generally defers to you on important matters

viii) is interesting and intelligent

ix) has good DNA/genetics that will provide good offspring

x) has no kids and never been in love with a man before

xi) doesn't nag, cause drama, embarrass you etc

xii) has no addictions or bad habits like high spending, drugs, gambling etc

xiii) will sign a prenup

v and vi are contradictory. v is unnecessary if the woman satisfies all the others anyways.

x is wrong unless the woman is < 25. Second best if has no kids, but has been in love once with a man who left her stupidly, but she thinks its because she failed to satisfy him properly. She will try harder with you.

xi is impossible with most women.

xiii is not really gonna matter. If she satisfies the other criteria, why fuck it up by insinuating she is gonna leave you. If she doesn't turn out to be a good choice, the prenup ain't gonna help much anyways. They rarely hold up when you need them to.

 

[dc101]

Quote from TGregg:

They aren't the only ones. A recent survey of "single" (status being self reported) guys had 60% claiming to be a genius. Not just smarter than average, but one out of a thousand! No doubt most of them could whip Michael Jordan's @$$ in a little one on one as well.

A commonly done survey always reports that most people consider themselves the smartest person they know.

Most people are mind-blowingly egotistical and have huge gaps in their self awareness.

This sounds like one of those 'scientific' (aka completely made-up) stats from women studies courses. Source?

 

[Eddiefl]

Quote from learn&earn:

+1 my wife to be ( 3 months) makes 4X what I do. She provides security and I provide the windfalls. Works perfectly. The key for marriage is for both people to be REASONABLE which VERY few people actually are.

She makes 4x what you make. Wtf. How did that happen.

Is she Martha Stewart. You are not married yet, and you can tell by using words such as "works perfectly", reasonable, windfalls.


Good luck bud, you will need, chips are stacked against you.

EF

 

[Ghost of Cutten]

Quote from fframe38:

v and vi are contradictory. v is unnecessary if the woman satisfies all the others anyways.

x is wrong unless the woman is < 25. Second best if has no kids, but has been in love once with a man who left her stupidly, but she thinks its because she failed to satisfy him properly. She will try harder with you.

xi is impossible with most women.

xiii is not really gonna matter. If she satisfies the other criteria, why fuck it up by insinuating she is gonna leave you. If she doesn't turn out to be a good choice, the prenup ain't gonna help much anyways. They rarely hold up when you need them to.

How are bisexuality and fidelity incompatible? Being faithful means not bedding others without permission - as long as the guy is ok with the threesome then there's no infidelity going on.

Threesomes are only 'unnecessary' in the same way that great art or fine champagne is unnecessary - you won't die without them, but life is much better if you can have as much of them as possible.

I agree it is harder to find someone who has never been in love, but it is possible, especially with interesting hot women. And single mothers should be avoided generally, as you will always be priority 2 or lower in her life behind some other dude's kid.

Last 2 serious relationships I was in had no nagging, drama, embarrassment etc. Once you meet people who don't pull that shit, then you lose all your tolerance for typical female BS.

Prenup can save your ass, and if a woman really loves you she won't mind signing it. Not signing is a BIG red flag. Just as you wouldn't trade a leveraged position without a stop, don't get married without hedging your downside.