Marriage, just don't

peilthetraveler · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from turkeyneck:

Marriage is quite literally an investment of not only your heart, but all of your work, incomeâand future income, especially when children are involved. Now, if an investment broker told you he had a deal in which you could invest, and there was more than a 50 percent chance that you would be wiped out and spend most of the rest of your life paying the margin call or going to jail, how much would you invest?

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/marriage-just-dont/

You didnt add the positives though. What if your broker told you that they had an investment that doubled your yearly income(2 income household) and/or gave you a full time nanny, chef, and housemaid and free sex for the rest of your life and it cost you nothing to get started only a committment in front of friends and family to a woman you already love and want to be with.

Would you invest in that?

short&naked · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from peilthetraveler:

You didnt add the positives though. What if your broker told you that they had an investment that doubled your yearly income(2 income household) and/or gave you a full time nanny, chef, and housemaid and free sex for the rest of your life and it cost you nothing to get started only a committment in front of friends and family to a woman you already love and want to be with.

Would you invest in that?

Then again, as in trading it's all about odds... (which do not look great for 95% of participants in either case).

Tsing Tao · Feb 16, 2011

hilarious. i have a beautiful wife who is still as awesome as she was when we were married six years ago. we're both over 35 now with one kid and we enjoy life to it's fullest. sex is still fantastic and she's a great friend.

no complaints whatsoever.

hippie · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from LeeD:

There are few countries that clearly differentiate how laws are applied to people based on their religious beliefs. In most Europen countries militants trying to enforce islamic law are considered common criminals.

This idea was floated (strangely enough) in the UK by the Archbishop of Canterbery, the most senior clergiman in Anglican Church (the official head of the church is the Queen). He suggested courts incorporating sharia could be set up for muslim members of the society. Anglican clergy are converting to Roman Catolicism in droves, even 3 bishops converted in one day to kick-start the process.

However, if you move to clearly muslim country like Saudi Arabia, you should be able to take advantage of most provisions of the local laws in respect to marriage without changing religion.

Obviously, there are disadvantges too... read, for example, http://conservativehome.blogs.com/platform/2010/12/sharia-learning-the-lessons-from-aceh.html

So you want to stone your wife and her lover, while you cheat on her with a non-Muslim woman?

Eight · Feb 17, 2011

Most men don't know what they really need from a marriage. Jonathan Gray has a book out that goes into that subject. Men need a supportive woman because we use up testosterone making a living and we need a supportive atmo to rebuild it at the end of the day... we need comfort, a meal, a good atmo...

The Marxist shit that we have been subjected to is just very destructive to having a woman that wants to do those things... American women all tell me that they DO NOT WANT TO DO THE ABOVE THINGS FOR A MAN!! They have been raised to compete with men, therefore they are not suitable wives and I found that out the hard way over a few decades too.. I made the best of it but it sucked to say the least... I just talk to them like work associates for the most part, viewing them as actual women is futile, they aren't..

I met a tall and attractive woman very recently that is a gourmet chef and knows massage therapy... and is accomplished in a few more ways than that... how does ET think I'm feeling about that? She is one in a thousand in the US, in other parts of the world probably not unusual at all but in the US, wow, what a rarity...

T_Geithner · Feb 17, 2011

Quote from BSAM:

Today's women should be treated exactly like you would a day trade. It's a short term deal. You keep a market instrument for a short term; you keep a woman for no more than 4 to 6 hours.

Then, you move on.

+1

hippie · Feb 17, 2011

Quote from Eight:

Most men don't know what they really need from a marriage. Jonathan Gray has a book out that goes into that subject. Men need a supportive woman because we use up testosterone making a living and we need a supportive atmo to rebuild it at the end of the day... we need comfort, a meal, a good atmo...

The Marxist shit that we have been subjected to is just very destructive to having a woman that wants to do those things... American women all tell me that they DO NOT WANT TO DO THE ABOVE THINGS FOR A MAN!! They have been raised to compete with men, therefore they are not suitable wives and I found that out the hard way over a few decades too.. I made the best of it but it sucked to say the least... I just talk to them like work associates for the most part, viewing them as actual women is futile, they aren't..

I met a tall and attractive woman very recently that is a gourmet chef and knows massage therapy... and is accomplished in a few more ways than that... how does ET think I'm feeling about that? She is one in a thousand in the US, in other parts of the world probably not unusual at all but in the US, wow, what a rarity...

They are many women who do these things: gourmet chef and knows massage therapy and wants to be a supportive homemaker. They don't happen to be tall beauties so end up working full-time outside the home for a living rushing around with kids in daycare. They do not marry well enough to be homemakers. They are too exhausted at the end of the day be a sexy comfort for their husbands.

T_Geithner · Feb 17, 2011

there are people who pay for this

http://www.wickedrealdoll.com/images/jessica_11.jpg

http://www.realdoll.com/cgi-bin/snav.rd?action=viewgalleryimage&gallery=tami&image=tami_set4_13.jpg

and people who pay for this

http://i.zdnet.com/blogs/sexchat-android-460.jpg

and then there's technology like Microsoft Kinect, which can be used like this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdepIXZTJsw&feature=related

maybe a company can integrate these three (Real Doll, Sex Chat & MS Kinect), and create some telework jobs for hookers worldwide

olias · Feb 17, 2011

Quote from Eight:

Most men don't know what they really need from a marriage. Jonathan Gray has a book out that goes into that subject. Men need a supportive woman because we use up testosterone making a living and we need a supportive atmo to rebuild it at the end of the day... we need comfort, a meal, a good atmo...

I would argue that we don't 'need' any of that. I'm not just arguing semantics with you. The implication is that we need all those things to be happy and/or fulfilled.....It's great to want all those things, but the minute you tell yourself you need someone else in your life to be happy/fulfilled....lookout. You have a destructive mindset that will lead to ruin.

turkeyneck · Feb 17, 2011

Quote from Eight:

Most men don't know what they really need from a marriage. Jonathan Gray has a book out that goes into that subject. Men need a supportive woman because we use up testosterone making a living and we need a supportive atmo to rebuild it at the end of the day... we need comfort, a meal, a good atmo...

Married men have lower testosterone because they no longer need to "hunt".