Marriage, just don't

LeeD · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from ChkitOut:

dont listen to that guy, women are to be worshiped, their feet are for kissing.

Womanisers are among the most vocal warshippers of women

hippie · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from nutmeg:

I paid for two weddings that are now kaput!!!

I told my ex son in law, no hard feelings, glad you're fucking gone, but would mind reimubrsing me for your half of the wedding? In the grand scheme of things, it was worth it, I wish they would have gotten married sooner so that fuck chop would of been out of my life earlier.

Yea that's what I called him "Fuck chop" 'cept it was FC around the family. One day he got wind that FC was fuck chop, I told him with a straight face "FC" stand for "fucking canoli's" as in would you get me some fc's. He bought it, he knows I like canoli's.

Now young men expect dutch dates. Why the woman's family still have to pay the full cost of the wedding? It seems many are "liberated" (free sex & 50-50 dutch dates) only when it suits them, but don't step up to pay 50% for the cost of the wedding.

hippie · Feb 16, 2011

Marriage is bad for the more responsible and more productive partner - male or female.

Marriage is for fools - one exception is when you cannot work and live together in the same country due to different nationalities.

hippie · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from intradaybill:

Catch 22. Overall it costs a lot more to date women. The article misses the point. Either you get married very young and you divorce in your late 30s or you get married very late with a woman who is feeling time is going by and she needs a kid and security.

Cardinal rule: never tell to a woman that another woman looks good or that some woman was looking at you. Every woman hates all other women in the world. You will pay for it even if it was not your mistake. If a woman thinks you are her puppy, she will never leave you. if you want to leave, that is a problem...

I was sort of dating one good-looking Jerry when first moved to So Cal. As soon as I kissed him (I meant kissing only, clothes on). He wanted to move into my condo. I backed off from taking it any further but continue to hang out at the beach with him as I was new here and don't know many people.

Then he starting talking about other women chasing him and that I should make up my mind about him. Well, that statement made me lose any romantic interest in him completely.

I found out later that he was not able to keep his apartment and live in So Cal. His reason for being in a hurry was that he needed a place to live.

sellindexvol66 · Feb 16, 2011

i've been married 18 yrs. overall quite happy but there should be some points made.

if you pick on the marriage haters and don't have kids you have little right imo. before we had kids it was like a tv show marriage..but once the kids came what a change. still happy but not easy.

i would tell anyone considering marriage that it is real hard, add in kids and get ready for some real stress; no matter how logical you think you are. to make it work and be happy i would say it is the hardest thing you can ever attempt to do in life.

Peternam · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from sellindexvol66:

i've been married 18 yrs. overall quite happy but there should be some points made.

if you pick on the marriage haters and don't have kids you have little right imo. before we had kids it was like a tv show marriage..but once the kids came what a change. still happy but not easy.

i would tell anyone considering marriage that it is real hard, add in kids and get ready for some real stress; no matter how logical you think you are. to make it work and be happy i would say it is the hardest thing you can ever attempt to do in life.

Once there are kids , the man comes into the second place for the woman, how does that feel ?

dtan1e · Feb 16, 2011

this is not exactly the discussion but couldn't help, just don't marry a woman that is short, fat, ugly face, shrill voice or not good personality, imagine having to spend years with someone like that, that will really ruin your life

sellindexvol66 · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from Peternam:

Once there are kids , the man comes into the second place for the woman, how does that feel ?

it bugged me for a while (mine are 10 and 12) but now i am very happy because i realized i could not change things. it is amazing still to me seeing the marriages in my town fall apart all at the same time. i guess some people don't want to adapt.

adapt and be happy or don't get married.

peilthetraveler · Feb 16, 2011

Quote from sellindexvol66:

i would tell anyone considering marriage that it is real hard, add in kids and get ready for some real stress; no matter how logical you think you are. to make it work and be happy i would say it is the hardest thing you can ever attempt to do in life.

Marriage isnt hard at all. As long as you are not chasing other women, or doing things to piss off your significant other (like surfing porn when she isnt around, or getting buddy buddy with the 20 year old receptionist at work) then its actually easier. Kids are not that hard either as long as you have enough money to care for them and raise them not to be brats.

HeSaidSheSaid · Feb 16, 2011

didn't Tiger Woods fall into his wife's trap? you know got on TV and publicly admitted his behavior was bad, I guess that was his attempt to save the marriage, then she turned around kicked him to the curb, laughed her way to the bank.