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I don't understand your point: are you trying to tell us this is how you trade?
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LMAO!! :eek:
I've done that! LOLOL! But it's been um... 5 years since I did that
.2007... my mom trades just like you. She panics when the prices falls, and sells. Then when it's high, she's greedy and won't sell. Then she waits for the fall, and then panics again. Absolutely nothing I say to her changes the way she trades. In theory, she totally agrees with me. In practice, she cannot bring herself to buy a tanking stock, and she cannot bring herself to sell a stock at it's highs (because it's going higher!).
She refuses to deal in options. I hope you're wise enough to at least look into hedging your trades with options. You won't gain as much, but it will give you both the security and courage to trade more til you feel comfortable.
Consider:
I buy a $10 stock because I KNOW it's going UP UP UP. I buy a $1 put option for 2 months to cover that stock (all hypothetical round numbers). I've just wasted 10% on that put! On the other hand, if I didn't think it'd go up 10%, just why would I even bother buying the thing?
So, now I've spent $11 on a $10 stock. The stock goes to $11 in a week. I'm even! I didn't make crap, but I'm even! Then it drops to $9.50. Oh no! Do I need to sell? Nope, because I have a put that just gained $.50, while my stock lost $.50. I'm even. I have spent $11, but I can sell for $11 (minus commissions).
Now the stock goes to $12. I'm feeling nervous... my cost is $11. Do I need to sell? No, because I'm not happy with $.50 and I think it will go higher. Now it goes to $14. YES! I wanna sell! I just made $3, minus commissions, because my total cost was $11. Well, maybe I want to be greedy. The stock goes to $18. OK! That's it! I'm selling! I made $18, minus my $11 cost plus commissions, and I profited $7. What a deal!
But what if the stock goes to $8? So what? My stock's worth $8, my put's worth $2 (because I bought a $10 put). My net loss? Commissions, because my put covered my stock at 100%. If I am tired of waiting, or it took so long to go up that my put's going to expire (I can always buy another put), I can sell... for $11 total minus commissions.
But what if the stock stays at $10? When my $1 put expires... the stock moved $.03! I didn't make crap, and I lost my put money! Yes you did. But a $1 loss for the cost of the insurance is better than the $5 loss if the stock tanked.
Do you get it now? You are too nervous to play open longs and shorts. Been reading your wishywashy about entering for months now.
Cover your bets and you won't mind hanging on as long as you need to, because you have nothing to lose if you do it that way. You spend something for the price of insurance, but if you are confident about the direction, and it's going up, you literally cannot lose if it goes down, but there's 100% upside to go!
Hope that helps
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