so yesterday you were seeking advice, today you don't? You sound like the typical koolaid drinker in that you believe you deserve a higher salary with little to show for (as evidenced in your having to prepare 6 months for a simple job interview in an area of supposed expertise). You have the choice to be one of those (though you can't mix):
a) You are a snake oil sales man and make a living out of cheating others or at least overpromise and underdeliver. There are numerous people who make millions doing that. It may be legal, some may not be, at the very least its immoral and unethical, your choice.
b) You acquire a high degree of skills and training as well as work experience which makes you on a purely expertise level more competitive than others. You make yourself indispensable and do better than the next best applicant. Its not about looking smart here, its not even about working long hours (though it often correlates), but it is about getting the job done at a very high quality level.
c) You are a loser and be one of those many millions of those that are shuffled around on a daily basis by angry and depressed bosses, doing stuff they hate to do, working with coworkers they hate to work with, and then medicate their pathetic life with house, car, and other purchases or indulge in destructive behavior just in order to not have to think about their miserable life style.
Who are you and who do you want to be? If you want to be mediocre in many areas then go on hit your drums and hang around Florida and program alligator sighting software. If you believe you can be part of b) or want to be part of b) then you gotta start focusing. You can hate me for being blunt to you but its the most honest advice you will get here. Stop believing this American bullshit story that you can still get by with being mediocre (like all American parents tell even their retarded kids that they are the best). Sure you can but you will hate your life and be displeased with the results. You can't have it all. The choice is entirely yours.
What makes you think I am still seeking advice? Despite your insults, I received some good input on this thread. I am all set, though others can feel free to chime in if they like. I will update this thread with my progress.
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