I have had to learn hard way with women, they are vultures dealing with your money as much as we are vultures for sex. I never tell them what I do for a living, I don't lie, but tell them I manage properties for a firm, never have anything over a few $20s in wallet I go out. I never take my one credit card, and I use my 25 year old Toyota always. If they don't like what they see, too bad, if they around six months later-I say I came into some cash, but never say what I do.
For sure man. Gotta be low key. I have a bad habit of spilling the beans too early