Market- thanks. One of my buggaboos is not reading carefully. I never saw this and neither Bandler nor Tony talks about this generally. I guess they don't need to.
Andy- The quick answer is that you become upset with a bad shot because you have conditioned yourself to do so. You can condition in or out anything that you want, and it doesn't take long. For example, Tony on stage typically finds a guy that is scared to death of women. Like if the guy gets close to a knock out, he'll want to puke. Then Tony does a short conditioning excersise, and all of a sudden this guy who had this immense fear of rejection, is thriving off that same rejection, like it's energizing him. If you want to be able to do this, get Personal Power tape set. For a couple hundred bucks you'll know more about how people (including yourself) tick than any psychologist. And you can make change that sticks. Check on Ebay or local used book stores, often you can find it cheap.
Again, as I said before, it's all about choice. How do YOU want to feel, act, etc. In order to produce a result (making money trading for example) you need to produce a certain set of behaviors. Most of us know what those behaviors are, but yet we can't quite get ourselves to do it. By carefully weeding out beliefs that get in the way, elliminating unuseful conditioning, and operating in optimum states, we begin to exhibit the behaviors that produce the results we desire, virtually automatically. This doesn't have to be hard. As a matter of fact, if it's hard, it's probably not right.
I'm going to put together my master reading list related to matters pyschological and post later today.
