Quote from stu:
I'm like yourself I think bigarrow. I choose carefully what I say to people when face to face about anything really , not just religion. I think it's important not to be too opinionated about anything , as one can be on a message board.
I meet people who will voice what I would find as obnoxious sentiments about many things, to do with race, or government, or religion etc., and I generally will try to circumvent or redirect the discussion. Most stuff doesn't bother me. Live and let live.
However I will not be held to ransom. If someone ever wanted me to say or do something not in line with my own ethical standards or moral standings, then I will always decline. For instance I never would do anything with anyone who made belief in any God a condition, nor if invited to give my opinion, shirk from what I have to say about religion. I would never coerce anyone to adopt my opinions, so I expect it's reasonable for people not to force their beliefs onto me.
So many cannot discuss the matter of religion coherently anyway.
jficquette is a case in point. He wants to me to believe that people who have no belief have a belief.
You really can't do much with a mentality like his. He reminds me of those type who everyone quickly edges away from at cocktail parties.