walther adds to the pair of "character/temperment" descriptors of thunderdog.
He suggests that cynical to sceptical range can be increased to include realistic. the spectrum is actually quite broad for learning to consider the opportunities that abound and are documented.
When most people are choosing, they are screwed as we all know. They are unable to make wise choices and that usually never changes either.
A person needs to simply learn to rank all approaches under consideration a a first step. The organization that does Consumer Reports is a good one to consider as an example. Take a look at Business Week occasionally as they do stuff. (The top 50 for example is the current one.)
Several people I know do as I do for practice. We track different systems that are public; we rank them; and we often compare notes on how each one can be improved. Why? Well, to keep sharpe primarily. It looks like there is a continuum of preformance. It is not possible to pick up a feature of one and dump it into the next one on the ranking list to make a change in performance. Things do not work that way it turns out.
To compare differing opportunities you need a basis. To develop a basis you need to know how to make money in many ways or you need to understand how extensive the money making opportunity is. Better to know both. ET is continually struggling with a wide range of matters. Here, there is no common ground to speak of either. Too bad for everyone.
"Knowing how to know" is a requirement for success anywhere. Since figuring out how well all the various systems work out there is on the table, it may be a good idea to get down "knowing how to know".
Anyone, it turns out, can go through establishing the process required to learn how to make money. It is a rational set of questions. If a person is able to not crap out at the beginning, they usually do not have to be taken over by repeated failure, the death nell, of becoming very very wealthy.
In this sort of quest, there is no overriding scepticism nor cynicism. Almost anyone can build a path (CPM, GANNT, etc.). What is reality? It is just taking steps to to get from here to there. You have to be able to know when you are learning something correctly. In ET we see, daily, a plethora of wrong answers. Most of them come from people doing wrong things and not knowing that they are wrong.
The first 20 things that a person corrects that he does wrong, go a long way towards being able to setting up a foundation for beginning to learn how to make money.
If you do not know of any systems that work, then you can conclude that you are unable to figure out the minimum required to be able to make objective choices. This is an easy personal assessment to make. Make it and find out one thing. You are simply unprepared at this point in life. Operating systems successfully is definitely not rocket science. However, if a person comes from a place of not having any success, or worse, having a record of failure, then probably nothing is going to change in the future.
A good tool for this costs less than 3 dollars. Get a stud and saw it in half for a friend. Each of you can hit the other with it until you agree that you need to get with the program and stop crapping away your time. You need to learn "knowing how to know" for making money. So far, it may be that you do not even know when you are wrong. ET is populated to the extreme with people who need to buy a "share a stud" with someone else.