"10 Struggles Of Being A Feminine Feminist
By Brianna Wiest, August 31st 2015
https://thoughtcatalog.com/brianna-wiest/2015/08/10-struggles-of-being-a-feminine-feminist/
1. People assume that to be a good feminist is to embody masculine qualities. ...
2. People tend to define women one-dimensionally, so you sometimes feel as though you have to choose between seeming “intelligent” or “attractive.” ...
3. It’s been suggested that your success is probably the result of you look a certain way, or because you found your way into the bedroom of a certain higher-up. ...
4. You acknowledge society’s warped consumerist-driven beauty standards, but still wear makeup, as you realize the problem is taking too seriously what was made for fun. ...
5. People almost use your love for traditionally “girly things” against you. ...
6. People still (somehow) assume that a sexy selfie indicates a lack of self-respect. ...
7. If you’re in a heterosexual relationship, people just assume you’ve fallen victim to the patriarchy, if you’re in a homosexual relationship, people ask who the “boy” is. ...
8. People claim it’s easier for you to have confidence because you appear a certain way. ...
9. You feel as though you’re almost constantly policing yourself so as not to say anything very gender-stereotypical (“I like when my boyfriend holds a door for me, it’s just a nice gesture.”) ...
10. You find yourself feeling as though you have to justify very basic interests, activities and opinions. ..."
By Brianna Wiest, August 31st 2015
https://thoughtcatalog.com/brianna-wiest/2015/08/10-struggles-of-being-a-feminine-feminist/
1. People assume that to be a good feminist is to embody masculine qualities. ...
2. People tend to define women one-dimensionally, so you sometimes feel as though you have to choose between seeming “intelligent” or “attractive.” ...
3. It’s been suggested that your success is probably the result of you look a certain way, or because you found your way into the bedroom of a certain higher-up. ...
4. You acknowledge society’s warped consumerist-driven beauty standards, but still wear makeup, as you realize the problem is taking too seriously what was made for fun. ...
5. People almost use your love for traditionally “girly things” against you. ...
6. People still (somehow) assume that a sexy selfie indicates a lack of self-respect. ...
7. If you’re in a heterosexual relationship, people just assume you’ve fallen victim to the patriarchy, if you’re in a homosexual relationship, people ask who the “boy” is. ...
8. People claim it’s easier for you to have confidence because you appear a certain way. ...
9. You feel as though you’re almost constantly policing yourself so as not to say anything very gender-stereotypical (“I like when my boyfriend holds a door for me, it’s just a nice gesture.”) ...
10. You find yourself feeling as though you have to justify very basic interests, activities and opinions. ..."
