Quote from Arthur Deco:
Oh, don't say Maslow! Only people as old as me are supposed to remember him. Still remember when I discovered him. Sent me down a dark path of self-discovery which wound up splitting my fragile personality.
Let me put this another way. ET is filled with phonies (I myself am only a semi-phony). It is important to be able to distinguish them from the real deal here. Of course if you could SEE or HEAR them, you would know in a flash. So I have tests. One of them is the lament "It took me x-mulitples of ten grand to get here!" X typically varies from 1 to 5. I would be embarrassed to tell you what my multiple is. Can you spare that much? If not, wait until you are as old and relatively fat as me.