They're not making health care decisions for the parent. DeSantis says, many many times, that the parent can choose their own destiny. Its in the video several posts above. "If someone wants to vaccinate their infant they can do so through their medical provider, but the state won't sponsor this."
This is, of course the opposite of the dictator. A dictator would force people to get vaccinated or be fired (DeSantis worked against this) or require vax passports (DeSantis was against this) to get dinner or to shop, or to travel.
Statist calls people statist. Clown.