When you call someone "too thick" it's
generally not a "gentle pointer" and pretty indicative of someone trying to piss someone else off. Would you really say that to me if we were (I know hard to imagine, but post COVID) sitting in a coffee shop face to face and expect that we would consider a civil conversation afterward?
I understood perfectly what you were saying, I simply disagreed with you. If someone flies off the handle in response to a post stating something as boring and non-controversial as chapter 7 outcomes, I maintain that it's really inappropriate to blame the person who posted the chapter 7 outcomes for the actions of the guy who flew off the handle. That's akin to blaming the wife for her husband beater her because she didn't kowtow to him. Should I carefully couch all my comments in loving, non-judgemental, as some people like to say "safe space" terms to ensure they don't trip off line in response to my posts? Perhaps, I can certainly try to do a better job of that. Am I in any way to blame when someone trips offline at something as silly as this if I fail to do that? I don't think so.