Quote from limitdown:
we all (those brave enough to comment) have expressed our satisfaction and dissatisfaction with the practices that we experience in this sub-industry.
Don did an admirable post. I really didn't think he'd participate, but I"m glad to see that he did, and that he understood that this thread is objective, and not flattering of the vast majority of the firms out there.
Those of us who are making a living from these markets are the few. There was one post from someone who comments infreqeuently, that took up a whole page. I noticed that his solution was:
- don't contact him (and that's fare, just that it cancels the credibility of those comments)
- good luck finding such a mentor
- don't accept advice from a broker sponsored mentor
- stay at it until you're profitable
- retail trading margins would be huge to duplicate what he does at a prop shop
- good luck finding a mentor
- you can make it in this business, but its hard
Uh, its as clear to anyone reading this thread that comments like that beget posts like this one. Simply put the contradictions vs.
the sales pitch vs.
the reality vs.
trading volume for volume's sake
are what these very competing objective are all about.
Happy medium or solution, well it really depends on ....... oneself, doesn't it?, whether this sub-industry is worth the risk vs. actual payout vs. the hype.
Ok limitdown, it's becoming apparent that you may just be pissed at the world right now because all you did was nitpick my thread for any negative thing you could find. I'm going to assume you have not been doing well trading lately and are looking to take it out on someone... But I'll gladly respond.
- "don't contact him (and that's fare, just that it cancels the credibility of those comments)"
I actually didn't say don't contact me, I said I won't show you anything related to how I trade, so don't even bother to ask. I'm not here trying to sell a book or magic trading system, so why would I want my trading style plastered all over these boards for someone I don't even know to suck the life out of it? No way.
And to go tit for tat on that one, the way you decided to spell fair ("fare") in that sentence doesn't help your credibility any. Spellcheck doesn't clean up those mistakes, eh?
- good luck finding such a mentor
Yes. What is wrong with that? Good luck. I think if you want to learn how to play the game you need to put your butt in a chair next to someone who does. That is my opinion based on my experiences. I don't think success comes from a book or seminar. I would love to hear someone's success story who makes a living all because of some book they picked up off Amazon. Someone indulge me please.
- don't accept advice from a broker sponsored mentor
Someone was complaining about how firms like to teach only big volume strategies, so why not learn from someone that you know does not have alterior motives?
- stay at it until you're profitable
I don't remember ever saying anything like this in my life! Where did I say this? This goes against everything I believe in. This game is not for everyone, it is for a select group with the discipline and mental fortitude to see through the fog. The sooner a guy can figure out he is not right for this and gets a good job he should.
I always tell guys not to touch a button or even open an account until they know how to trade. Why lose money while you are learning, it's stupid. Here's an excerpt from my post you hate so much:
"do it yourself only after you completely understand it. Don't reinvent the wheel until you are successful and completely understand the game you are playing."
And here's a link to another post by some guy looking to join a prop firm where I tell him not to until he has had the chance to see guys make money:
http://www.elitetrader.com/vb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=17253
Here's an excerpt:
"But before you decide that you want to trade full time, why don't you find a firm that will let you come in and watch them trade for awhile before you make the decision. Try to convince one in your area to let you be sort of an intern in a way. I'm sure if you offer to supply all the guys there with Starbucks every morning, they will greet you with a hug and a smile every day. That will be much cheaper for you in the long run than risking yours, theirs, or anyone's capital to learn.
Don't learn to trade by trading. Trade after you have learned how to trade. And I know you say you have been trading a small retail account for over a year, but that is a whole different animal as you will soon learn."
- retail trading margins would be huge to duplicate what he does at a prop shop
Yes, and I'll say it again... If you don't need the leverage that prop shops provide, I think IB is a fine place to be. But I think prop shops take a bad rap from some guys who don't understand how to use leverage, and I am just standing up for Don and saying that I believe more guys succeed at the prop shops than trying to make a living at a retail firm. There's no way I could trade without leverage and make the money I do, it's that simple. And I am not some big 10,000 lot trader taking big swings. I just understand all the aspects of leverage and how to milk it the right way, and in a very risk averse way.
- good luck finding a mentor
Don't know why you felt compelled to say this twice, must be a biggie for you. My secret method from years ago is out anyways, you just read all about it three paragraphs ago, so there. Try that and get back to us.
- you can make it in this business, but its hard
Is this not true? I have seen a ton of people fail doing this. All of them called themselves traders and none of them knew how to trade.
- "someone who comments infreqeuently"
OK, so it's true that even though I have been a registered poster on this site LONGER THAN YOU HAVE, I have less than 1/4 as many posts.... My question is, who do you think looks at the markets and trades more, and who is busy reading about how much everyone else is making and bitching about it more?
- "Those of us who are making a living from these markets are the few"
I know two things about that statement: 1 - I am in that group. 2 - I have my doubts as to whether you are.
And I am not saying that to be mean or flippant. It has just been my experience in the now 10 years I have been trading that the unsuccessful guys bitch about the firms, or the software, or the this and that, and I can't remember many successful guys who do that. From what I have seen, a good trader (and my definition of good trader is much more stringent than most) can make money at any firm and with any software. It is what is in his head that makes the money.
Well, there's my second novel. My fingers hurt now, thanks.