I just won't let anyone decide for me whether I should get offended or not by his advice. That's just absurd. I believe that should be my choice to make. From my perspective, it really wasn't bad advice (nothing I wasn't made aware of already.) but it was spoken so bluntly it got to the point it became more offensive in nature to me than advice given. Which was valid enough reason for me to get offended and self-defensive!
If that makes me an arrogant, egomaniac who can't take offense, can't take advice & can't admit to being wrong (as well as.... being a complete failure in the stock market) in yo guys opinion, then so be it!
What is it you need to defend in front of a computer through a text-mostly interfacing web-forum with complete strangers though? If you want to take offense to what you may have misunderstood through reading a few sentences, that's your prerogative of course, and just a undisputable fact. However, do you really have the choice, or is it automatic? Would it be better if you could
will yourself not to be hurt by others so easily, not to let someone move you in any direction other than you want yourself? I'm not saying this is easy, but like trading, not impossible either.
Words above in bold are your words, and such over-sensitivity will in turn escalate any situation you're in (putting words in other people's mouth). Be mindful that experts who have studied a field very intensely, may often respond very intensely, especially in their given field. So this you may meet in workplace, organizations and other places as well, and it will never stop unless you decide to have a very very boring life, but you're probably not that type if you're into trading.
I'm very new to this site, and the tone here can be demanding sometimes, often personal attacks, as one would expect on an internet forum. However, being "new" in this context means more about experience in the markets, which is what really counts even though many seems to rather want to focus on everything else other than what really counts for us: trading. What's also true, is that if one ignores the personal attacks and condescending tones, it's more likely that constructive discussion may resume.
But really, let's forget this personal stuff, IMHO it's not really crucial for your trading, and you may be right there. The above is just for you to read. Nobody else's business really, but many can learn from it though, as I also learn from such experiences.
For trading purposes:
I'm wondering, when you're wrong in the market, do you also become agitated, do you feel a need to justify your trade/position and/or do you sometimes revenge-trade (outside your plan)? In short: Can this heigthened sensitivity (which also can be put to good use when used calmly) affect how your trading "when in the heat of the moment"?
You don't have to answer if you don't want, and you may be offended if you like, but this is an honest question.
If you'd like to discuss technicals, I suggest you show us some of your trades (charts are nice), and ask questions about that. Of interest are entry-triggers/levels, exit-triggers/levels and position size in relationship to account.