You guys just don't get it do you? It's not whether his advice was good or not. It was the way it was given out. It was rude and insulting but obviously you all fail to see that since it wasn't directed at you guys right?
1. He said amateur in his replies aleast 3 times.
2. He stated I made 20% by pure luck. (With no proof whatsoever.)
3.Sure ... Psychology ...
But you don't master by meeting psychologists. (Indicating I should go see a shrink!)
None of these statements alone is any indicator he was being an asshole. It's when you put them altogether, felt his vibes and that's when I was certain he was being an asshole!..
If you can't understand that then sorry don't talk to me anymore cuz obviously we come from different worlds!
I grew up reading a lot of Andrew Carnegie books btw... I am strongly against criticizing whether it's good or bad. There is better ways to give advice without having to be hurtful.
1. You're no pro, you admittedly don't earn money on this. So you're a self-confessed amateur, right? Same as me..
2. Why would you believe +20% on a one-hit wonder is not luck? I seriously doubt any trader, even pros, can somehow guarantee +20% beforehand. So most traders do count on luck. Another word for it is odds, but still uncertain. You shall be commended for having the balls to stay in the trade though, as that's very hard in the beginning for many.
3. You see ill intent where there is advice. Do you go to a psychologist in order to master baseball or basketball, or do you go to a trainer or train yourself? Your perspective of being treated badly is simply clouding your mind and making you misunderstand the real intent of the advice given.
Best thing you can do is realize you ARE a newbie, and try to understand what is behind the advice you're given. If not, why would anybody try to make you realize enough to meet the real reality? You won't understand the realities of trading unless you do it in trading, or from others' experiences, which will both be harsh. Simply because the differences in perspectives of newcomers and experienced traders will diverge so widely. At least from others' advice you don't need to lose money, but it usually takes time for you to see the same things. Often years after advice is given.
So you need to choose how your ego will be humbled, wisely. Trading may sound "fun" and "rewarding", but for those of us who've used years to try to master it, and still struggle, warning of pitfalls and trying to provide the right perspectives, that it's not in any way glorious, at least not until mastery, is a good and prudent thing to do. But, as said earlier, this is the kind of things newcomers don't really want to hear, which is why it needs to be emphasized even more, in good consciousness.
But you can also choose to disregard advice, and nothing will be lost for those who provide it. Maybe you find your own path, a better one. If that works, well done.
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