I would tend to agree with you. At least about stops. Different strokes for different folks. I also don't use stops, but pay for it with reduced size.
I kind of accepted the 95% lose myth, and thought about what 95% do. They read a book, put it on with a stop.
I also didn't like getting stopped out just when I should be adding more. The stop assumes that most of the time the mkt trends. That has not been my observation. But sometimes it does. If I am properly hedged, I won't get hurt that bad if it trends against me, but I will make all my money if it finally trends for me.
I'm not going to argue the point. This is what has been working for me. If something else works better, live and let live I always say.