FYI: (prior topic reference) Previously I posted about why the ATM Iron Fly had negative delta. Here is a plot of IV curves (smiles) for SPX from 14 - 90 Days to Expiration for reference. The red circled region is where most trading occurs. The heavy black horizontal dots are ATM. Note: in all cases the lowpoint of the IV smile is far to the right. A picture is often helpful to understand some topics.
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So that means that the long put will have a much higher IV than the long call that is equidistant from the ATM and will obviously be more expensive, but does that always mean a much bigger delta? I just checked on a number of highly liquid stocks today that seem to be trading options with an IVol that is in the higher 52 week percentile, and the difference in the deltas between equidistant calls and puts doesn't seem to be all that big...