Originally posted by Rigel
Yes, very good looking, and sweet, and "innocent", and "caring". Even sang in the church choir. She fooled me. She had given herself all the proper "credentials". I think she's pretty typical for a woman nowadays. Makes you wonder what a typical doctor or minister, etc., is really like. Anyone you might assume to be a "good" person. You can't tell about a person by how they look or what they do for a living. Saying, for example, that a teacher is someone who contributes to society and a trader is someone who doesn't contribute to society is hogwash. To many people their profession is mainly something they hide behind, a persona, a lie IMO.
I am sorry to hear that you were involved with a psychopath, it happens. Many intelligent and perceptive people have been fooled by the charm of both men and women who have no moral compass. It is hard to trust again once having been bitten by a psychopath.
There are no doubt exceptions to every profession. One could even imagine a President of the United States who had once been a practicing alcoholic and coke addict, or a President who cheated on his wife when in office.
That some percentage of people in all professions suffer from a lack on integrity outside the scope of their specific profession is not uncommon, nor do I think that will ever change.
The problem arises when their ethical and moral deficiencies have an effect on the work that they do in their fields. In most cases, it does not, as evidenced by the number of alcoholics, drug abusers, sex addicts, embezzlers, etc. who attest to having been productive members of society even while practicing their respective addictions in secret.
However, my point about trading is that in and of itself, the act of trading is not a profession that serves society directly. Could our society continue to function without trading? Sure. We went nearly a week without any trading during the 911 period.
However, could our society function without doctors, lawyers, firemen, teachers, and other professions that are in the "service" industry?
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P.s. Now we can get a barrage of comments about how we could do better without lawyers, but we couldn't not function without a system of law and those who write the laws, enforce the laws, and defend those innocents who are accused of violating the laws.